What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I instigated the hookup between my wife and my friend Graham. My wife has a high sex drive which is difficult to keep up with, but at the same time Graham hasn’t had sex in over 20 years. I thought it quite appropriate for them to spend the night together. They get on well, and my wife likes him, although I don’t think she’d ever thought of him as a potential sex partner.
Graham is very shy, but admitted to wanting my wife sexually during a man-to-man talk. My wife needed a more subtle approach over a number of weeks, which focused on suggestions and what ifs. It was only after a few drinks one night that she admitted to being intrigued about having sex with Graham.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We invited Graham to dinner, but I made it clear to him in advance what was on the cards.
After dinner I left them alone in the lounge, whilst I cleared away dishes and loaded the dishwasher. I hadn’t finished loading the dishwasher, when my wife was holding Graham’s hand and leading him upstairs to the spare bedroom.
There was never any prospect of me watching, as my wife had made it clear that she wanted privacy, but I sneaked upstairs to listen from our bedroom next door.
There was silence at first, although I heard the brief sounds of shoes being kicked off, and clothing being removed, but then there were familiar creaks of the bed as they climbed in together. I was so excited knowing now that they were both completely naked together.
It was a while before there were any sounds of sexual nature, although I had heard them kissing each other – over 20 minutes had passed before I heard my wife moaning, and I distinctly heard her say that she loves having her pussy licked, and several minutes later she had her first prolonged orgasm.
A few minutes later I heard Graham moaning, and the slurping noises suggested to me that my wife was sucking his cock, and soon afterward there was clearly movement in the bed as they got themselves into position for sexual intercourse. The simultaneous moans of pleasure provided me with evidence that Graham had just inserted his penis inside her, but what followed confirmed it as the bed creaks became rythmic – he was now plunging up and down on top of her.
The intensity increased and my wife called out that his cock felt so good inside her, before she came for the second time – a massive prolonged climax. Graham was continuing to pump her full of cock, and it was a further 10 minutes before he grunted loudly and released sperm inside her, at which point my wife climaxed for a third time.
The noises subsided and then there was silence as they both enjoyed the afterglow of sexual satisfaction.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Graham is now part of our sex life. As far as my wife is concerned she now has 2 sex partners. Sex is very good, and we have occasional threesomes although most of the time it is one on one in private.
I am however, trying to persuade my wife to have a home sex movie involving all of us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, learning new things, experimenting, thought it was an important experience to have, to feel better about myself.
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it.
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it.
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent.
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being able to share sexual pleasure.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being allowed to watch.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This has made us different people sexually. MOre open.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is a good mechanism by which I can share my experieinces.
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