What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What country and/or city do you live in? Dhaka
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My Lovely Moon
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her in University though she was in other faculty. A common friend introduced her. She was a very cute, curvy and hot girl; Hindu in religion but open in thoughts. We become friends so easily and we were very open using sexual talks casually. I always wished to have sex with her and finally it happened.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I used to live with my family and one day, my family member went to our village and I got stacked for classes.
One day, I had a bad headache and she drove me to my house from campus and entered my house. I took medicine and after a while I felt good.
We were casually talking and suddenly I kissed her forehead. It all started then…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, we had a very good hookup. We kissed, licked each other, and our sexual session lasted for long as swapping position helped, both were well experienced and yes, this was our best hookup in a lifetime.
We talked about each others beauty, performance, sexual parts and it ended with complete satisfaction.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were friends for 3 more years till we finished our studies and then she got married.
We continued our benefited friendship almost regularly and we never thought of falling into a relationship as we knew that our families would never allow it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only our common friend know about the hookup and he always supported us.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both sucked each other, and she was very active during hookup.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had no protection of STI.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I felt more confident about my sexual ability.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She was moaning too loud that I had to stop stroking several times to stop her moaning loud.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? In our society, hookup is a taboo. It needs to be changed in a positive way.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a very good initiative and inspiring for the new generation who will change the upcoming societal stance.
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