by Roen

Gender: Male
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Reno, Nevada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Government
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Mom’s Nurse

How long ago did this hookup happen? Four Months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short Fling/Rebound Sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Gabby” is a pretty Latina in her mid-twenties. She is a little heavyset and very curvy with a big rack and a nice booty. She has soft light brown skin and black hair, and nice kissable lips. She is also quite intelligent and educated.
Gabby was my Mom’s home care nurse for about a year. I had interviewed her for about an hour and we had spent some time together at my parents, so I knew her pretty well but at the time I hired her we were both in committed relationships.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was dealing with the emotional fallout of the end of an eight year relationship. I had asked my girlfriend to marry me again and she had said no again, and I had then asked her where we were going and we had a huge fight and ultimately decided to split up. It was hard, we even have a kid together.
I have never been that great with women, had a few hookups here and there but I have never really needed to be as I said I dated the same woman for eight years.  
I had gone to visit my Mom, as I said she is not well and has Alzheimer’s. After a few incidents including my Mom nearly burning my childhood home down I had hired Gabby as a bit of a housekeeper and nurse and companion for my Mom during the day while my Dad is at work. 
Gabby had worked for me for a few months when as I said I had gone to visit my Mom. Gabby was also newly single and dealing with that, she was talking on the phone and I don’t think she had any idea that I spoke Spanish.  
We were making dinner for my parents and brushed up against each other. In that moment there was a lot of sexual chemistry and Gabby kissed me. I kissed her back and we started to make out a little when my Mom interrupted us. As I went to go home Gabby slipped me the address of a hotel and told me to meet her there around nine.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hotel was a bit seedy, it belonged to a friend of hers. She texted me a room number and I knocked on the door and she answered in a tight tank top and jeans and let me in. She was showing a lot of cleavage which got my attention. We talked for a few minutes about random shit, we were both a bit nervous, and we then started kissing.
Gabby let me undress her, I took her tank top and those jeans off. She had on a black lace bra and thong style panties set that was really hot. I went to undo her bra, she laughed a little and brought my hands to the front and it opened there. Her breasts were enormous, 40D I would later learn. I played with them a little before pulling her panties down.
Gabby had undressed me as we went along and we rolled around on the bed naked feeling each other and making out for a bit. She had a few tattoos and liked mine which was a nice surprise. After a while I buried my face in her tits and licked and sucked them until Gabby offered to suck on me. I turned over and she licked and sucked my nipples before working her way town to my cock.  She licked and sucked on it until I knew I was close to finishing and I asked her to stop. She didn’t and I came in her mouth. Gabby swallowed and got up to go rinse her mouth out, as usual I had to lay there for a few minutes after sex. She came back and wanted to cuddle for a while and laid down with her head on my chest.  She had her hand on my cock the entire time and was playing with it and I don’t think I ever completely got soft. We talked all kinds of different things again.
After a while Gabby mounted me in cowgirl and rode me. I put my hands on her hips and watching her breasts bounce up and down was really something. She got pretty loud moaning and screaming a lot until she orgasamed, and I did shortly after. We then fell asleep as it was pretty late.
Next morning we both woke up early. We took a shower together, cleaning each other and I would say we were washing the sex off. We dressed, kissed goodbye, and I went to work.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? For the oral no but I used a condom and Gabby told me she was on the pill after we hooked up.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was still hurting a bit from my breakup and I wanted to

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Gabby and I hooked up about half a dozen more times over the next couple of weeks. I got pretty grabby with her while visiting my Mom one time. Gabby eventually broke things off, saying she liked me but as long as she was my Mom’s nurse hooking up with me was very unprofessional. Thinking back I was starting to develop feelings for Gabby.
However Gabby did recently quit working as my Mom’s nurse. My Mom had accused her of stealing some jewelry, she had not and it eventually turned up. For Gabby though it was one abusive comment too many and she quit. However she called me a few days ago and said since she no longer is my Mom’s nurse she would be interested in going out with me and I have to admit, I am interested.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone, what happened between me and Gabby is private. Maybe it’s part of the reason I posted it here.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? A little bit, after Gabby and I stopped sleeping together things got very awkward.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Good sex with someone I liked, worst part was how awkward things were between me and Gabby for a while after. Biggest change for me has been I have been very careful to keep things strictly professional between me and my Mom’s current nurse even though this one is pretty hot too.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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