by Joss

Gender: Male.
Age: 23.
Race/ethnicity: Latin.
Location: Lima.
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Administrative assistant.
Relationship status: Single.
Religious affiliation: Agnostic.
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None.

My Neighbour, My Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a bit taller than me.
He’s 35 yo.
He’s a gym guy.
He’s really nice and have a good conversation.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met him two months ago through a guys page.
We talk and notice we could get along. After talking a bit more we found out we lived real close, so we decided to meet each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we met in his flat for the first time, we’d had a bottle of wine.
We talked a bit more about ourselves and our lives.
Then we tried kissing and it was so good that turn us on.
He knew how to keep me in the moment.
It was horny but not desperate stuff.
We felt it happened for a short time but we had sex for almost 4 hours.
Both of us ended up really satisfied and decided to set another encounter again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We use condoms for being new to each other.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I found out he was nice, down to earth and attractive.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Just a bottle of sweet wine.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about setting another encounter up but not taking this to another level.

Both of us are not into having a relationship yet.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a girl friend of mine.
She said was about time for me to have a sex encounter.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was we had a great time knowing each other and the sexual satisfaction.
The worst thing might be the short time we had.
After that hookup I started to believe casual sex might work and not being such an awful experience as people say.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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