What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Native American / Alaska Native
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada Saskatchewan
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Prefer not to say
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dominant-submissive masochistic and sadistic
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
My New Love
How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Normal sex with my potential dominant
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was my high school since I was in 9th grade and he was in 11th. He is slightly taller than me with a gorgeous face and smile. I’ve always admired his tight body from afar with his taut muscles and good form. I used to see him in the hallway and during lunch but never really spoke since I was really shy. Years later, we began talking in the summer of 2018 and started to plan hangouts as friends.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met up at my house. At this point, we had been having makeout sessions for a month now, and he has sucked my nipples once. This time he took more control, but I coaxed him by telling him how much I wanted him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This time, I sat on top of him and told him how much I wanted him while he laid on the bed. He started sucking my nipples and kissing me everywhere until he hit the waistband of my panties. He wouldn’t go any further so I just caressed his head and waited for him to kiss me. Instead, he slipped my panties to the side and licked me so good, I was screaming. I almost begged him to stop but I didn’t want him to feel like I couldn’t handle it. I was covering my mouth while he brought me to the edge of orgasm over and over, but it was like he was trying to deny me relief. He stopped and told me he wanted me to wait for the good things. I pouted but he sent me to the bathroom to make sure I wasn’t soaking. We cuddled for a while and he wanted to take me to his place for the night.
Once there, we were cuddling on his bed and I decided to return the favor. I begged him to let me put him in my mouth and I could not believe how big he was. I wanted to see if I could deepthroat him, but I could not get it down. After some time, I noticed his toes curling and his moaning and his hand on my hair tightening. I wanted to make him orgasm, so I forced his cock down my throat and did it repeatedly. He pulled me off and told me to stop. He knew how much I wanted his come, but he didn’t let me get it that easy.
At this point, I was willing to do whatever to make him happy and I whispered in his ear telling him how much I wanted to ride him and make him feel good. He let me and I was so eager so I fucked him good. I held his hands above his head so he wouldn’t stop my pace and hearing him moan was pushing me to the edge of orgasm. I came all over him a few times, but good thing he didn’t notice or he might’ve stopped me! He was afraid to keep going because of all the noises we were making and his brother was staying in the next room so we cuddled and fell asleep.
In the morning, I woke up to neck kisses and I felt so loved. We started touching and feeling and I put my butt against his dick and moved it around slowly until he squeezed me. I reached back and guided his dick into my sore pussy. His dick would not go in all the way, but he fucked me softly, being careful. His pace got faster and it hurt, but I took it and he covered my moans and choked me for a bit. He pulled my hair and whispered in my ear, “I’m going to do something bad, baby.” He shot his load inside me as he grabbed me by my throat.
After cleanup, he massaged my clit and kissed it because my pussy was so sore and told me he hopes I can handle his dick next time. I kissed him and promised I could.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We explored our limits on our relationship and planned to do more than just one vanilla sex night. He prefers when I call him master and I love it. He lets me take control but I relinquish control to him now since that night of just sex and he makes me feel like the happiest masochistic bitch in the world because he has control of my psycho ass and I love him to death now…5 years ago if I had known this high school crush was as sadistic/masochistic as me I would have married young and gave him my virginity and everything…first time in my life I had an orgasm from just penetration. I don’t know how I spent my life without him at this point.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one because no one knows the type of sex we plan to have and if they did they would freak.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Falling in love with my high school crush
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We didn’t have the whips or cuffs and we had to be quiet
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I can never go back to vanilla sex ever again
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was more than what I expected I didn’t think it would be this amazing at this point everything was very respectful always constant consent and always asking if I feel comfortable which is the most lovely thing I’ve ever experienced
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that people should generally do whatever they feel comfortable doing and should never do whatever you are not comfortable with. I would hope that nobody sees my dominant submission relationship as abuse..my last relationship was just sex nothing more but most of the time felt like rape and made me feel gross but after talking and communicating with my new partner about the things I like and things I don’t like.. I feel amazing and everyone deserves to feel that.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like this very much very insightful
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