by Don

Gender: Male
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Oregon
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Own an IT Company
Relationship status: Seeing Someone
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A Few

My New Neighbor

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two Months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First of More

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I first met Mia (going to stick with giving my partners fake names) a few months ago.  She has short black hair she typically styles up a bit in what looks like a Mohawk.  She has multiple piercings in each ear, a pierced nose, and as I would go on to learn a pierced tongue  and navel along with a number of tattoos on her back and arms.  She is also very muscular, with arms bigger than I have seen on most guys and a six pack and large, muscular legs.  I have seen her move things I would struggle with.  She is a few inches shorter than me and two years younger.  When I first met her it was the day I moved into the apartment complex, she came over and introduced herself.  She was dressed in a tight white tank top and tight jeans, and I could easily tell she was not wearing a bra.  My first impression was she was a lesbian and until she blew me I thought that.  We were friendly and had dinner a few times, and she is very mechanically inclined and came over to fix things in my apartment.  Mia was trying to come onto me but I was not picking up on it.  I had seen her at the indoor pool in our complex but felt nothing.  I felt like we were friends but honestly before we hooked up she was not even on my radar as a partner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I need to share a little background.  I posted on here a few times last summer and in the fall but here is an update.  I have been single a little over a year, learned I had a ten year old daughter with an old girlfriend, dated a little and slept with my daughter’s mom a few times but haven’t really dated since the end of a several year relationship.
Moving on, a few months ago one of my roommates told me she was moving in with her girlfriend which was not an issue.   My other roommate decided he wanted to move his girlfriend of five years in (it’s his house and I had lived there nearly rent free for years) and their son.  I never liked her and told him I was moving out.  It was an end of an era for me, he and I had lived together for nearly seven years and several girlfriends each and had been close friends since High School.
I moved into an apartment building living alone for the first time in many years.  Mia was around and friendly and we spent some time together.  For me it had been a rough week at work, a long time client had passed away and I had been forced to fire two employees.  A pipe broke under the sink, the super would be a few days fixing it so I asked Mia to come over and take a look. I am not very mechanically inclined so my trying to fix it would only make it worse.
Mia came over on a Saturday morning and fixed the pipe.  I wasn’t in the best of moods, on top of my week my daughter had blown me off for her friends, I offered Mia a beer, we started talking a bit and she asked what was wrong.  I will admit to some bitching to which she responded by kissing me and grabbing my cock.  She said clearly she was going to have to make the first move.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Mia sat me down on the couch, took her shirt and bra off and opened my pants and began to blow me.  I hadn’t had sex in a few months, oral in even longer, so it felt amazing.  It was one of the best blow jobs I ever had and Mia also managed to make it take a while for me to cum.  I finished in her mouth, and Mia went to my bathroom to rinse.
She returned and we sat in silence for a few minutes and we finally started talking about the show on TV.  I was well aware she was topless and her breasts were right there.  Finally she asked if I wanted to fuck, and I said yes and we went to my bedroom.  There I did her doggie style and grabbed her waist mostly and her breasts a little, and I also slapped her ass a few times which she really liked.  I finished and she did a little after and we both kind of laid there for a while.  We cuddled a bit and chatted, I mentioned I thought she was a lesbian and she laughed a little.  Mia said she is who she is and is very secure in that, and she looks and dresses how she does because that is who she is.  She also said it keeps guys from hitting on her and lesbians always seem to know she is not one of them and she has never had any interest in women.  We watched TV and talked for several hours, we had a lot in common and had both been single a while following the end of long, serious relationships.  We talked about my daughter, and all kinds of other things.  Finally Mia said she needed to leave for a while, had a late lunch with friends but asked if she could come back that night and I said yes.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did twice, Mia did during the doggie sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Didn’t discuss it but I used a condom during penetration

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was having a bad week and honestly because Mia made the first move.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A beer each

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up that night and have spent a lot of time together since.  Mia is very different than anyone else I have ever been with.  While currently she works as a bouncer for a club she does like to act like a girl once and a while.  She likes flowers and her jewelry and she will wear sexy lingerie if I ask her.   In the bedroom Mia very much likes to be in control and is quite dominant really, and very much likes to be on top but will try things if I ask her and always makes sure I enjoy myself.
I think I am falling for her and quite hard.  Recently she got me to go to a club and dance, something I never do.  I got her in a dress for the first time and Mia spent the whole night dancing and grinding on me.  For the first time in a while I am seeing a future with someone.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told a few people most of whom are surprised Mia likes men

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not one bit

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I would say the best part was being with someone and actually looking forward to a relationship again, I think the worst part was how badly I misjudged Mia.  Having read a bunch of posts on here and based on my own experiences I would argue there is no such thing as casual sex, there was nothing casual about what Mia and I did and clearly it has led to a relationship.  As for me I feel a lot better about myself and a lot less lonely since Mia and I started spending time together.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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