What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? warehouse at the time
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? somewhat inexperienced
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
My Next Door Neighbor
How long ago did this hookup happen? about 7 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll call her Julie. She was far from fit but had striking grey-green eyes and very long silky brunette hair and stood at about 5 feet 7 inches when not wearing heels. I didn’t usually see her eyes very often since either her long flowing hair got in the way, or she would wear glasses.
One day coming back from work I found her sobbing uncontrollably leaning against the door to her apartment which was the one closest to mine. I had never met her before and I wasn’t really sure about her situation. I decided to check on her and see if I could help in any way possible.
Apparently, her (now ex) helped a few nasty viruses onto her laptop the very one she used for work. I was able to get her data back and restore her laptop within a couple of hours. During this time I did my best to calm her down while I did my work. When it was all said and done she thanked me furiously, crushing me tight in her embrace it kinda hurt a little.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This happened once again a week later when she decided to give her ex one more chance. His constant need for assets, both physically and digitally, finally sent her over the edge and she ended there relationship for good.
I went over that same night and got her laptop back to normal and successfully recovered a lot of her recent data. She was very thankful and allowed me a taste test of some really amazing cookies she baked in the oven while I was busy with her laptop.
She kept smiling at me strangely as I ate one but I thought nothing about it. As I stood up to leave she stopped me, playfully locking me in her arms. I just wanted to, thank you, she whispered low and kissed me on my right cheek, leaving a small red lipstick mark.
I found myself growing all Scarlet and tried to escape, discovering I was still locked tight. I simply said your welcome as she smiled again. She then backed away, lightly brushed me with her hair and whispered low again, right in my left ear.
Really thank you. Can I have you tonight? She arched her back and I froze completely. To me, this was quite a shock and didn’t know how to respond. I wasn’t sure what to say and she got the hint she may have crossed too many barriers too quickly. She kissed me goodnight and walked with me to my apartment. The next day she invited me over for breakfast and apologized, blushing the whole time. I couldn’t help but adore her so much. Over breakfast, I told her I was still very new to sex and she understood completely.
I will never forget this one line she said to me as I was helping her clean up around the kitchen. We both stood facing each other and she spoke up first. I can teach you some things if your not too busy and are up to it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We walked arm in arm towards her bedroom and quickly removed each other’s clothing. We closed and locked the door and I just stood there, looking at her naked form, unsure of what to do next.
I gently reached out and touched one of her firm young breasts, both ending with a large light-pink nipple. She backed up and got herself comfortable on her bed and motioned me closer.
For the first time I got to see a woman’s vagina up close, but she couldn’t wait long. She had me kneel at the foot of the bed and my face just inches above it. Using just her voice she directed me to use my hands and tongue, instructing and teaching me how to explore her depths.
Initially I wasn’t really sure of this as it was completely unfamiliar territory, I didn’t find her taste/scent too enjoyable but eventually, I got used to it.
I will never forget how she lifted my head from between her thighs and was panting lightly, instructing me to lay in the bed with her. I obeyed and she took me into her arms, pressing me into her and kissing me passionately, feeling her moving rhythmically up and down.
I’m ready, she said, and I reached between the two of us to guide me to her entrance. I pushed in gently and felt my head breach into her vagina.
She would make these happy grunt sounds on every occasional down stroke and she looked so pleased underneath me as she was being taken by me. I warned her I was getting close to cumming and she had me withdraw before I got any closer. She had me lay next to her and she pumped me to a climax that felt amazing. She smiled up at me as the last of my seed shot out of me and into her hand.
I was somewhat eager to reapply my newfound knowledge on her again so I crawled over to the foot of the bed and began my ministrations on her womanhood I had just been inside moments ago. The frequency and volume of her panting increased and she went all tense a few seconds later. I had helped her to an orgasm. I later found out she was the type to have multiple orgasms before the guy had one.
We both went to her small bathroom and helped get each other cleaned up, then we cuddled for a while in her bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We remain good friends even to this day, although she eventually found herself a steady boyfriend and a year later they wed.
Before that time it wasn’t too uncommon to see me at her place or her at mine learning something new.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? her company, the closeness, and the knowledge she taught me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Probably the most memorable for me is when we were both lying there on her bed and she whispered she was ready for me to penetrate her. I still sometimes think of her often.
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