What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My Only All Girl Threeway
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2008
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One girl was a thin brunette. She was 20 years old at the time. She had small but perky breasts. She was about 5’4, pretty and thin. I met her through a friend.
The other girl was a very pretty and thin girl as well. She was 19 years old. Also a brunette. Small breasts as well. She was about 5’6. We also met through friends. Before the hookup, I thought they were very sexy and had thoughts of being with them but never expected anything to happen
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This was in 2008. I was 21 years old. It happened in my home. The plan was to have myself along with Nancy and Paulette take sexy pictures of each other for our men. We had a few drinks and we stripped down to our bras and panties to take photos of each other. No sexual activity was planned. Nancy instigated the experience.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started taking provocative pictures of each other in our underwear. We all decided to remove our bras for more sexy shots. After a few pics I decided to remove my panties for more pictures. I was the only one that decided that. I had a tiny little patch of pubic hair. We took a few more pictures and suddenly Nancy kissed me. It was very unexpected. She moved me to my couch and kissed me a little more and she quickly decided to perform oral sex on me. She was a bit rough and sloppy but it felt good still. Paulette started to kiss me and play/suck on my nipples. Paulette and Nancy decided to switch and Paulette was then performing oral sex on me. She was very good at it. Paulette gave me an orgasm and I then proceeded to perform oral sex on Nancy. Paulette kissed her and played with her breasts as she did to me. I remember Nancy having a good amount of pubic hair because she was growing it out to get waxed. But it didn’t bother me. Paulette and I switched as well and Paulette made Nancy orgasm. Nancy then proceeded to perform oral sex on Paulette. Paulette had shaved off all her pubic hair. Again we switched off and I gave Paulette an orgasm. They were very good lovers. It ended after we all had orgasms and were very satisfied.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were really shocked we did anything but acknowledged that we really had a great time. We decided we would do this every few weeks but it never happened again for some reason. I grabbed my old flip phone (this was before smartphones) and texted my boyfriend (now husband) what had just happened. He was fine if I messed with women but other men were completely off limits.
My hopes with them for the future was to remain good friends and occasionally fool around more. Today I don’t talk much to them as we all live apart by many hours. But we’re all on good terms
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend at the time who is now my husband. He thought it was super hot and asked for pictures. I also told my best friend. She also thought it was hot and she expressed a little jealousy.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just having some great fun with friends. It was a great experience at the time
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it never happened again although I was with Nancy and Paulette a few times individually after that.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me feel confident and sexy about myself
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? At the time I was ok with it but being married and committed to someone I love I think sex with one person is what I personally prefer.
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