by Coffeelover

Gender: Male
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Oregon
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Banker
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

My Only One Night Stand

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two and a half years or so

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Gia is a petite Indian woman, five two and quite thin and was in her mid twenties  She had brown skin and long black hair.  I had always thought she was quite attractive and exotic and had known her for years.   I knew her pretty well, she had dated a close friend for two years in college.  She also frequently came into the bank where I worked since she worked up the street and we would talk and flirt a little.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Now my first time had only been about two months before this so I was sexually quite inexperienced.  Gia had been coming into the bank for several years and we would talk and flirt a little but I was never quite ready to make a move on her.
I discussed this with the friend that had dated Gia, telling him I was thinking of asking her out.  To me friends’ sisters and ex’s were always off limits.  He said he had no claim on her as they had not gone out in many years and also told me she was quite fun in bed.
I asked Gia out for drinks and we met at a bar.  Gia had on a tight grey tank top and jeans.  We ordered and started talking and flirting, and Gia put her hand on my thigh and stroked my cock through my pants a little.  We started kissing and remember Gia was really jamming her tongue in my mouth.  We decided to head back to my place and we could barley keep our hands off each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Gia and I made out on my bed for a bit and then clothes came off and she was enthusiastic and eager.  She had on a set of red lace bra and panties that worked great with her skin but I did not let them stay on long.  We actually laid on the bed naked and kissing and feeling each other for a while.  I asked to suck on her tits and she said yes and I did for a while switching back and forth.  Gia offered to give me oral and did so for just a few minutes as I got hard quick.  She did a trick where she used her mouth to put the condom on my cock.
Gia smiled and asked what I liked and I told her girl on top and she mounted me.  Gia bounced up and down and I started moaning and I grabbed her breasts but she kept moving my hands back to her hips.  She began to moan and I noticed a weird expression on her face, I didn’t know enough then but Gia was having an orgasm and I finished just a minute or so later inside her.  She wanted to cuddle and fell asleep on my chest just long after and I liked having her asleep in my arms.  I fell asleep and awoke a few times during the night, not really used to having someone else in my bed at that time.
When I awoke in the morning the shower had been used and coffee had been made but Gia was gone.  She left a note saying she had enjoyed herself and to call her.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes we both did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I didn’t have condoms but Gia assured me she was on birth control and had tested clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to and was still learning sexually, and I had always been attracted to Gia

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had a few drinks at the bar, not really that much though.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? For some reason my cock hurt for a few days afterwards, never did figure out why.  Gia and I tried to hook up a few times after this and she kept coming in the bank but it never quite fell together for us again.  I started seeing my fiancée not much later and kind of stopped flirting with Gia.  She still comes by the bank on occasion but usually gets someone else to wait on her.  I enjoyed my night with her but look back at Gia as my only true one night stand.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told the friend who dated her, and we compared notes about how Gia was in bed.   Only other person I ever told was my fiancée who understood everyone has a past all though she does not really like Gia and gets rude with her when she on the rare occasion now comes in the bank

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Honestly, not one bit.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was great I would say that was the best part, the worst part was Gia and I never got together again.  Not sure this changed how I feel abut casual sex or sexuality, but as I said I view this as my only one night stand.  I felt good about myself after.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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