by Jacrou

Gender: Female
Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Company director
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 36
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 13

My Protector

How long ago did this hookup happen? 24 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First of more

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 20 year old guy in the army.  He was medium height, very strong and muscly, short brown hair. And totally sweet.

I met him when I travelled out of town to attend a family wedding. The bride was my cousin and she was marrying a guy in the army.  Therefore there were a lot of army guys coming to the wedding.  The wedding was in the country and most of us made a long weekend of it so were there for a few days before the actual ceremony.

At the time I had just turned 21 and I was a university student. Shortly after I arrived in the small town where the wedding was being held my cousin introduced me to C, who was an army friend of the groom and who was in the bridal party. She told me that there were hardly any single women at this wedding and there were lots and lots of single army guys. She said she was a bit worried about me and had asked C to look out for me because he was different from the other guys and was really sweet.  Which he was, he was kind of softly spoken and gentle and very nice to talk to.  From that moment on, he spent most of the time with me.   I ended up spending a lot of time chatting to him, hanging out with him etc and I liked him.  It did also cross my mind that maybe it would be annoying to be protected from the advances of some of the other army guys, maybe I would’ve enjoyed it!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? C did his job well – as the wedding reception got going and the guests had had a few drinks and were getting happy, he actually helped me out quite a bit keeping over-eager guys at bay.  And I was actually grateful for it because there were so many of them and I did stand out a bit, being an unaccompanied blonde from the big city.  It was a fun night though, and everyone was dancing a lot.

Towards the end of the night I was dancing and C was right there beside me as he had been most of the night and I turned towards him to dance with him.  He was in dress uniform and suddenly I looked at him and thought crikey, he is hot!  He was looking at me differently, I could see desire in his eyes.  I felt the same and obviously he could see that too.

We were surrounded by members of my family and his friends so without speaking we slowly worked our way towards the edge of the hall and then when we were near a door, slipped out together.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we were outside the hall and alone he pulled me towards him and kissed me passionately.  It was the most exciting kiss, we were devouring each other and panting and pushing our bodies together and touching each other.   Just raw desire, I wanted him SO badly and couldn’t believe I hadn’t noticed it until just a few minutes ago.

He took my hand and led me down corridors to the room he was staying in. There was dormitory type accommodation for all the guys so it was a room with lots of beds in it but no one was there.

We ripped each others clothes off and fell onto this quite narrow single bed together.  He was kissing me nonstop and stroking my body while I was touching his absolutely beautiful muscly chest and back and clutching his very short brown hair. There was no mucking around as I was so wet for him and he was so hard, he entered me quickly in missionary position and then I put my legs over his shoulders and he just fucked me hard.  It felt so so fantastic.  He was a wonderful size for me, just right, he felt like he perfectly fit me, and his strong body turned me on so much.

We were both close to cumming when the door opened and a guy walked in. Woah! sorry! he said and backed out again.  I just didn’t care, I was enjoying this fucking so much, C hesitated and I said, just keep going I want you to cum inside me, and we were off again and shortly after he came, his gorgeous body shuddering above me and I held his butt and pressed him hard against me and my clit so I came too.  It was probably the most intense ordinary missionary position sex I can remember having.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes, pretty much at the same time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None 🙁 I am so bad this way. I was on the pill though.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sudden and intense desire for someone I had spent a couple of days getting to know. His kind nature, his hot body and the whole man in uniform thing definitely contributed!

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much: A bit of alcohol.  I don’t recall I was drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we had both cum, we lay together for a short while. The experience had been very intense and it led to a quite immediate emotional connection.  So saying, I wasn’t overly optimistic of it leading to anything much.  Bluntly speaking, we lived in different cities and moved in totally different circles.  I also thought he was quite a serious and emotional type which always makes me a bit uneasy.

However things evolved in a different direction. The person who walked in on us turned out to be my male cousin (the bride’s brother).  The next day he saw his sister the bride and told her what he had seen, as a funny piece of gossip. Unfortunately my mother, aunt, grandmother and sister were all in the next room and all heard.

This was relayed back to me and of course it was extremely embarrassing, I didn’t know how I was going to cope with this. Then C told me that he was falling in love with me and wanted to have a relationship with me of some sort.  He asked me to go with him back to his home town for a few days before I went home and I agreed for 2 reasons. One, it took me away from my family who I couldn’t bear to see and two, if C and I were ‘in love’ it kind of made the whole thing seem slightly less awful.  We ended up dating long distance for 8 months or so, but then I had to stop it because he was very serious and talking marriage and I was a million miles away from that, having plans to travel and not at all wanting to settle down.  He was very upset when we broke up and I haven’t spoken to him since.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, although they all knew!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Not the hookup itself. It was fabulously exciting and intense and passionate. I regret that it was exposed to a lot of people and that I perhaps didn’t handle that as well as I might have.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Beautiful intense passionate sex and simultaneous orgasm, especially as it kind of snuck up on me.

The worst was the extreme embarrassment of my entire extended family hearing about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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