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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States of America
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Dining Room Host
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I am straight. I am interested in women.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? One
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

My Second Blowjob From A Woman Who Is Married.

How long ago did this hookup happen? A little over one month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Collette stands at about five feet zero inches tall. She weighs one hundred seventy-nine pounds. She is very pretty with long dark brunette hair. She has nice breasts (which I like) – four children. Her breasts are still shapely. I would describe Collette as having exotic beauty. I knew Collette pretty well as a friend, and I knew her husband. I met Collette in my current home city. I liked Collette and was happy she and I were friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at my house, as did the first one. Collette felt it was time she treated me to head again. No planning was involved. It was spontaneous, as was the first time. Collette instigated it again. She was eager loving, voluntary and willing.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time Collette blew me, two weeks previous, she wore a dress and high heels, and she put her dark brunette hair in a ponytail. Her dress was not tight fitting, but her breasts created a pleasing curve in it. This time, she wore a blouse, skirt, high heels, and she put her dark brunette hair in a high bun. The first time Collette blew me, it was in the bathroom with the door locked. This time she blew me in my bedroom with the door open. As with the first time, I put my conscience aside and this time decided to enjoy having Collette suck on my penis until I ejaculated. She was married but she was an adult and she knew what she wanted. This time, I kissed her before we began. She and I swapped tongues as we kissed, making it more interesting. While she and I kissed, she let me unbutton her blouse. After she unbuckled my belt and unzipped and opened my pants, I helped her to her knees. It was easier this second time watching Collette take the head of my penis and a little of my shaft between her lips and into her mouth. The first time, I could not believe she was sucking me off. About midway through her blowjob, I would guess Collette had four to four and a half inches of my seven erect inches in her mouth. It felt really good again as Collette sucked on my penis while she gently bobbed her head up and down, pressed her lips and tongue against the shaft, my corona, and my head. As she sucked on it, I remember thinking both times that her lips felt great and how warm and moist her mouth felt. Collette was terrific! I especially enjoyed each time she pressed her lips and tongue against my head and corona. While Collette sucked me off, I played with her hair and I quietly encouraged her, letting her know that I was enjoying and appreciating being blown by her. Unfortunately, all things have to end, and it was about a half-hour from the time Collette took me into her mouth. I was very close to ejaculating. As with the first time she blew me, I tapped her gently on her shoulder and said quietly, “Collette honey, I am cumming. Can I cum in your mouth?” Collette did not break her stride. She pressed her lips tightly around my shaft and held my penis as I ejaculated into her mouth. Just like the first time, Collette swallowed, taking my sperm into her mouth onto her tongue then down her throat and into her stomach. What a great blowjob! Collette was a great lover!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I finished ejaculating into Collette’s mouth and after she finished swallowing my sperm, I helped her up from her knees and she and I kissed. I remember tasting a little of my own sperm as she and I swapped tongues. I got another great view of her breasts in her pink brassiere before she buttoned her blouse. The next day, I woke up feeling great. I text messaged her thanking her for both times and I reassured her that they were the first two times I had received fellatio from a girl, young woman, or woman. A week later, Collette treated me to my very first handjob from a woman. I remember thinking that she should have jerked me off first then she should have sucked me off. I am still friends with Collette (now friends-with-benefits.)

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. You see, Collette is (happily) married and I do not want to hurt her or her husband. My friend Elizabeth knows I have a small crush on Collette. She is the closest I came to telling that Collette blew me twice and she swallowed both times.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being sucked off by a very pretty, still attractive and desirable thirty-eight years old married woman. The first time I was a little nervous, but it was a great twenty-five minutes. This time, it was a terrific half-hour.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having Collette’s blowjobs end. ????

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Yes. Both times Collette blew me, she was very conscious of her teeth, which I deeply appreciate. I also respect her for letting me ejaculate into her mouth. I did not hold her head either blowjob.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy casual sex now, and I accept it when it comes.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Wonderful site.

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