by Rose

Gender: Female
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Mexico
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: English Teacher
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Probably Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Like any other, I love having sex yet I’m not obsessed about it
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My So Not Good Fuckbuddy (Guys Please Don’t Do This)

How long ago did this hookup happen? Around 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this guy at school, we clicked the very first time we ran into each other, the attraction was mutual, he was all over me all the time. I didn’t want to have sex with him, yet. It was more like serious, but he didn’t take it that way.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I don’t remember well, I think I said something like I was feeling alone, and he said he could make me feel better anytime I wanted, it was weird cause he was talking sexually and I wasn’t, when he said he could make me feel like I’ve never felt before I realize it was only sexual. So one day we agreed to meet at my place for a “conversation.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we entered the apartment he started kissing me, I led him to my room and he touched me everywhere but my pussy, it was awkward, his kisses weren’t good so I was just remembering that I was there because I liked him, he took my clothes off and proceed to the penetration, so dull. Then I saw he had a big penis but honestly it made no difference, it didn’t feel different from the other guys’. We were doing the same uncomfortable position for 20 min.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t, he obviously did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Pretty much because I had a crush on him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty, because he was only concerned about his pleasure and not mine, and also for falling for a fuck-buddy when I wanted something more serious.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my best friends, they only said “We told you so.”

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I didn’t because I learned a lot about him, since then my feelings towards him went away.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was that I opened up my eyes. And the worse the sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I wasn’t married when he asked me to be his fuck-buddy. He made me feel like a really needed girl during the whole act, that’s why I chose that title.

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