What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Travel Agent
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2 before MFM
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My very first MFM

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in a serious relationship with a guy “A” (Asian) for about 3 years. Before A, I was sexually inexperienced (relative to most in today’s society) because I only had awkward sex a few times with a high school sweetheart and plain/typical sex with a long term boyfriend in college. A is 10+ years older and certainly more sexually experienced than I am. He does not believe in sexual monogamy and he does not judge sexual behaviors differently between men and women. Hence, he sincerely wanted me to experience more variety in sex.

The other guy “C” (Caucasian) is a guy we found off Craigslist. He’s a very handsome blonde with blue eyes, 6 feet 7 inches tall with lean & athletic body. With his tall height, wide shoulder & lean body, he could easily be mistaken for a pro athlete, like NBA or Pro Volleyball.

Before C, I’ve never had sex outside of my own race (Asian). Hence, I was curious about sex with another race and Caucasian would be my first choice to try. C always made me very nervous because I thought he is really handsome. In fact, the very first time A brought me to meet C over coffee for only 5 minutes, my legs were weak and my panties was soaked thru in the first 2 minutes.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About 2 years into my relationship with A, he asked if I ever fantasized about threesome with 2 guys. My initial reaction was angry that he even asked me about such a thing and refused to answer it, but in reality, I did fantasize about 3some before. Two months later, he gently probed the question again when a similar topic came up. I wasn’t pissed anymore and I admitted that I have. Over the course of the following months, he talked a few times about wanting me to experience that MFM fantasy. After a few such talks, it really piqued my interests and I told him that I would try it.

So, he posted a few times on Craigslist seeking another man to do MFM with us. He personally screened a few guys, whom I liked their looks in photos, and eventually selected “C” because C is the well read, educated, respectful, and very flexible.

Once we all settled on C would be the guy for my first MFM experience, it took us several months waiting & coordinating for a day when all three of us have time to do it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the day when we planned for the threesome, I put on a long slinky dress and a pair of high heels that higher than what I usually wear, because I am only 5’3 and C & A are 6’7 and 6’1 respectively. The unexpected was that I was running late by about 1.5 hour because of some errands I had to do. Since we planned to have 3 hours to do the threesome and I didn’t want to spoil my first experience by rushing it, I called A and told him to reschedule.

Since A and C were already waiting for me in a hotel room for almost 2 hours, A told me to just stopped by the hotel room to sit & chat. I agreed to go to the hotel room to chat because I felt bad to back out in the last minute.

When I went to the room, A told me to sit between the two guys on a sofa to just chat. After some pleasantry, A asked me if I would be fine that C cops a feel on my legs while A and I kiss. I said fine. Then, A started kissing & making out with me, still fully clothed. As A and I french kissed, A started kneading my breasts through my dress. C just lightly runs his hand up & down my thighs. Having two guys touching my body at the same time was definitely a brand new experience that got me really aroused and my panties were really soaked from the sexual thrill.

After a while, A suddenly asked me if I am OK letting C eat my pussy for a while. I didn’t answer but A knew from the way I looked back at him that I was fine with that suggestion. A picked up from the couch, carried me over to the bed, laid me down at the edge, and told C to go ahead and eat the pussy while A continued to kiss me.

A stood by the bed, lowered his upper body, and went back to kissing & kneading my boobs, I could feel C pushed up my dress, pulled off my wet panties, pulled my legs apart, and started eating my pussy. Having an extremely handsome Caucasian eating my pussy while making out with my love A, the excitement was too much for me that I had my first orgasm within one minute of C eating me.

As soon as A felt my body tensed up during my first orgasm, he knew how excited I was. He stood up straight, pulled out his cock, put it in my hand to let me play with it. Then he looked in my eyes and asked if I wanted to go all the way. As C continued to eat & finger my pussy between my legs, I barely uttered my concern that we don’t have much time left to go all the way. A replied that he and C can always do it fast.

So, I nodded my head. A immediately told C to go all the way but do it fast. C stood up, stripped totally naked, hurried to put on a condom, and just started pounding my pussy while I played with A’s cock. It was such an odd experience that I was holding a cock while another one is thrusting inside me. It wasn’t long before I had another orgasm from C’s pumping action.

As soon as A noticed that I had another orgasm, he asked C to switch so A could fuck me. Since it was also A’s very first MFM threesome, A seemed to be quite into it as well. For the next few minutes, A and C were switching back & forth & taking turns fucking my pussy. They were switching so frequently to a point that I thought it was becoming comical to me instead of feeling erotic. But, I think A & C really liked the tag team style of thrusting their cocks into my pussy.

Then, it settled down into A fucking me while I laid on my side. C stood by the bed near my head and gave me a good view of his cock. Since I’ve never seen a Caucasian cock, I was so curious that I really played with it and even examined it. The blonde cubic hair, the really while/pale skin, the veins clearly showing thru the pale skin.

C’s cock wasn’t extra long even though he’s 6’7 and it was only about 1 inch longer than A’s cock. But, C’s cock head is quite large and very pink in color. I tried to put the C’s cock into my mouth and I had to open my mouth really wide. The novelty of seeing & holding a Caucasian cock and getting fucked by A at the same time really heightened my sexual excitement…I had another orgasm while holding C’s cock while A pounded away.

After I calmed down from my 3rd orgasm, I noticed that I was already running late and I must go. I told A & C that. They both said that they’d fuck fast & cum fast. Up to the point, I was still fully dressed with my high heels on except my panties was taken off. C pulled me off the bed and positioned me to stand & bend forward so that C could fuck me doggy style while I stood in my heels. C hiked up my dress and just started pounding my pussy fast & furious. Even though C’s cock was only 1 inch longer, the deeper pounding in doggy style gave me a few painful jabs deep inside me…but it was somewhat a erotic pain because I knew it was caused by a longer cock with really large cock head.

After about 2 minutes of furious pounding, C pulled out his cock, took off the condom, and just unloaded on my butt chick because he didn’t want to soil my dress. The hot burning cum hitting my butt chick felt so arousing that I almost felt another orgasm coming up.

As soon as C squeezed out his last drop, A wasted no time and entered me in the same doggy style & started pounding fast. C came over in front of me and put his semi-hard cock in my hand. The feeling of C’s hot cum slowly dripping down thru my inner thigh while A’s cock ramming inside my wet pussy, as I held C’s slippery cock in my hand and it suddenly hit me that my pussy has been pleasured, probed, & fucked hard by two guys’ tongues, fingers, and cocks. Such surreal thrill pushed me over the edge and started giving me my 4th orgasm. But before my orgasm was completely over, A pulled out and unloaded on my butt chick. At that moment, I really wished A could have stayed inside me longer because my pussy was still hungry to be filled up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The rest of the day, my legs felt really a bit sore & weak from the four orgasms I had. I still felt surreal the next day. In the following week, I masturbated 3 times by re-living various details of the threesome. C, A, and I did several more threesomes in the following two years. Every time, C and A always try to do different acts or positions to keep it interesting for me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Only A and I talked about it during sex just to relive the excitement & thrill.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I’ve experienced new ways to enjoy sex with the full support from A.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I am now also a believer that sexual monogamy isn’t the best. The casual sex doesn’t have any negative impact to our relationship because I continue to love A and be together with A, even stronger bond than before.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Exploring & expanding sexual boundary is best done with a full support of the significant other.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Before A, I never imagined that I would have done any of these. But, now, I am open and even looking forward to explore the new boundary.

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