by Dave

Gender: Male
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: St Louis
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sales
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you: A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Wife and Her Boyfriend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I had a couple of MFM 3somes with this guy Bill (no MM contact). He is roughly my age, ex military so still in good shape, my wife finds him attractive. We met him on a swingers website. I consider him a friend, and my wife refers to him as her boyfriend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife is home alone sometimes during the week while I’m at work and Bill doesn’t work far from our house. Bill and I were texting one day and I suggested he text my wife and ask her if she would like to have breakfast in bed. They had a conversation and she asked me if it would be ok. I acted like I had no idea about it and told her I was turned on, but I wanted pictures. So he came to our house about 45 minutes after I left for work one morning.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My wife met him at the door completely naked and walked him in. At that point she went to her knees, undid his pants and began orally pleasing him. She handed him her phone and said, “take a pic and text it to my husband”. I was at work trying to concentrate when my phone buzzed. I got the pic and was instantly rock hard. About 10 minutes later my phone buzzed again. It was a pic of my wife spread out on our bed with his fingers in her. Then a pic of him using her toy on her while sucking her clit. Over the next hour I got countless pics of them in different sexual positions taking turns with the camera. I finally snuck to the bathroom to masturbate.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? My wife had her tubes lasered and We have all three shared test results for STDs and HIV.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I am completely turned on by my wife having a second lover. She was having trouble with her self esteem and having Bill has returned her confidence in herself.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After he left, my wife called me and we met for lunch. I could smell the sex on her and she was absolutely glowing. Both of us were completely turned on and had passionate lovemaking when I got home from work. We already have plans for him to spend the weekend with us this weekend.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Absolutely no one. No one I know would understand this, that is why I’m writing this. My wife feels the same as I do.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for all involved.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Knowing that my wife was being pleased by another man while I was not there was the best part. There wasn’t a worst part. It has brought my wife and I into new ideas about what a relationship can be.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? We have gone out in public, all 3 of us and usually they sit next to each other at dinner, kiss, handhold, flirt, etc as I’m across the table. Out dancing she will dance with both of us, or 1 at a time and kisses, grinds with each of us. It’s funny seeing people stare or whisper when they realize it.

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