What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA- Washington D.C.
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6-10
My Wife’s First Experience With A Woman
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife, for this story I’ll refer to her as K, is auburn-haired with green eyes and freckles that come out with a tan. She is 5’7″, with a higher waste/longer legs, thicker girl who holds her weight extremely well, topped off with large 36DDD breasts. She is a bit on the tomboy side and has way more guy friends than girl friends. She has always identified as straight and shown no interest in woman (or men really, she says she was never really felt very sexual before meeting me a couple years before). She has only kissed a same-sex friend once in her life (it was a drunken situation egged on by the friend she made out with many years ago – they still joke about it to this day).
We’ve been married for only a couple of months, but are truly soul partners. Whether travelling to the other side of the globe for vacations in SE Asia, exploring new bars and striking up conversations with randoms, or just relaxing on the couch binging on shows, we are always in sync with one another and always share what is on our mind with one another.
I am a nerdy guy – 5’9″ with a mild gut (think chubby dad bod), curly salt and pepper hair and hazel eyes. I am definitely the sexual one in the relationship, enjoying sex with both sexes, but only ever on a physical/sexual level with men. I told my wife about my bisexual side while we were dating and she occasionally fingers me and has used a dildo a couple times on me.
D, the male-half, is a mid 30s spritely type of guy that is best described as a guy from a semi-private small college who didn’t leave his frat-boy antics in his 20s. He’s the type of guy that wears aviators and still pop his polo collar and still somehow pull it off. He has straight medium length dark hair that he spikes forward some and an Italian/Jersey Shore style skin tone.
A, D’s wife, is in her very early 40s, but has done well at keeping a nice fit physique on a shorter frame about 5’5” or so. She has medium length blond hair and a smooth shimmery face and nice eyes. She also has what we will find out are implants giving her around 34DD size breasts.
K and I met him while waiting in a Maine airport from a recent vacation. K and I had posted up at an airport bar waiting for our delayed flight to come in. She left me at the bar and went to check in with the gate counter to see how long the delay would be and after a short time came back telling me she had met a nice guy in line at the counter and he’s probably going to join us. Shortly afterwards, D came and introduced himself to us.
D has a very strong, forward demeanor and after our nice greetings says he’s buying a round while we wait. We end up having several rounds waiting for our plane to arrive and end up becoming great companions with all of us laughing and chatting away about why we were in Maine and our personal lives, including D’s wife A and them having a older toddler at home. Our plane finally arrives and as we are settling up our bills, D says he would like to invite us over to meet his wife and daughter. We exchange phone numbers and discuss how it’d be great to meet his wife and hang out again.
K and I get to our seats and order a couple more rounds on our flight back home. During this time we are laughing about how we got ourselves into “another situation” where we met a random guy (couple) and are now going to hang out with them. Starting on the plane and throughout the time until we met up with D and A, K and I’d joke about off the wall topics regarding this couple potentially being swingers to what our process would be to exit the situation. I of course thoroughly enjoyed this conversation as it was a topic I have always been intrigued in as a very sexual person and even having my wife say it gave me fantasies (and leading to some fantastic sex in the evenings and occasional morning). After about a week D reaches out via a group chat with all four of us on it to set up a date and we all agree on a few more weeks from that point. We continue to have some conversation back and forth leading up to the evening and we discussed that we could provide side dishes and they’d provide the meat to grill. During one of these texts, D says that if we have any “party favors” to bring them. Again K and I are floored by this, think he’s referring to nose clams, and wondering what we’ve gotten ourselves into with this couple. We google his name and find pictures of him and his wife, who is very attractive, but both agree has had work done.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We head over on a Friday afternoon and are greeted and welcomed with warm embraces into D and A’s home. A is amazingly nice and my wife and her immediately go into the kitchen to drop the food off and grab a glass of wine. D and I head down stairs to their basement living room and stop off in their utility room to grab some beers. While in there he pulls down a box and a water pipe and shows me his weed collection. We pack a small bowl of a nice uppity variety and take a couple small hits. We head out to their small backyard where the girls are and they show us their little neighborhood and we sit down and chat with our cocktails. We all just kindof clicked and the conversation ebbed and flowed between the four of us, occasionally leaving to go refill glasses of wine or grab some beers. After a couple hours, we head back in and get the dinner ready. D and I head to the grill and through a pork roast down. We head back into the utility room and take another hit off the pipe. He proceeds to pull out some nose clams and asks if I mind/want any. I initially decline only to say that I’ve never done them and want to, but that K has and that he should bring it up to her. We finish grilling off the meat and bring it and a couple extra refreshments upstairs.
We crowd around their living room coffee table and eat dinner, continuing chatting about all sorts of conversations. At this time, D brings up the nose clams to Kate and after a bit of side conversation, we decide we are game to try them. We head downstairs to the basement living room and D brings out the small box and all four of us take a bump. Given it was my first time, they all are asking me what I think and I tell them I don’t really know yet. We continue our chatting and heading outside for a smoke (D, A, and myself) and to continue the conversation. It is around midnight and we head back inside to do a few more nose clams and D and I take another hit or two off the water pipe. I am feeling very good at this point with an awareness accompanied by lower inhibitions to share and talk. I am guessing that this is the feeling around the room given the evening.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We are now all just sitting in the basement living room with the girls and I sitting on the couch (me in the middle) and D sitting in a chair on one end. D has put on some music via the television. The conversation shifts to A and K somehow starting to talk about their large boobs and how they are similar. This conversation somehow expands to A removing her top and letting us see her breasts uncovered. K and I glance at each other both mentally screaming about how we knew this couple was trouble, but we grabbed each other’s hand and gave each other a nice squeeze and a head nod symbolizing our agreement to let this situation progress.
We look at A’s breasts and I can see her medium areolas with smaller nipples that were fairly erect. A asks to see K’s breasts and after another look and nod, she reaches into her summer dress wrap and undoes her front-clasped bra and pulls it off through her sleeve. She lowers her dress top and shows off her large natural breasts with medium sized areolas and puffy nipples that are slightly erect. I look at D and he is just smiling and we all start giggling about the situation we are in. A asks if she can touch K’s breasts and K and I both nod as she reaches across me to caress one of my wife’s breasts. After a couple of seconds, K asks if she can return the favor and the rest of us give our arrival as she reaches across me to caress A’s breast.
I am in heaven at this time, I have always wanted to be in this type of scenario and start to get a mild erection. K makes comments about how soft and firm compared to her natural breast is. I look at both of them and ask if I could also feel and everyone consents to this and my hand joins my wife’s caressing A’s breast while my other hand caresses my wife’s. I compare the size of each in my hand, looking back and forth and finally tweaking both of their nipples before returning my hands to my lap. I look over at D and he just smiles at me showing he is enjoying the show. During this time the girls resume fondling each other’s breasts and I get up and switch spots with my wife so they can be closer. The conversation which had been fairly idle as we all were just enjoying the moment switched led to the girls somehow wanting to try kissing each other. Again I am floored by this, knowing that my dreams were coming true as far as I knew and K looks at me for permission and we whisper our immediate thoughts that we are both okay with this situation continuing and that I want her to have fun and enjoy herself.
At this point the girls embrace and slowly start kissing each other on the lips. The atmosphere is heating up fast as D and I watch our wives’ embrace each other and make out in a way I have never seen before. K says that A is an amazing kisser and I ask if I can try and everyone says yes. A I lean in and K and A leave their embrace so that A and I can make out for a few seconds. I back off and agree with K that A is great and that they should continue where they left off. As they start cuddling up and making out and the situation starts to be a bit too voyeuristic, D and I head outside to have a smoke and talk while the girls got acquainted.
D and I are chatting outside for about 15 minutes and after looking through the back window into the living room we see that both of the girls are down to their panties, making out and rubbing their hands on each other’s bodies. I am getting very horny at this point and start occasionally adjusting myself through my pants. After another smoke I look back in and see that both of the women and A is now on top of K, making out as both of them have their hands rubbing on each each other’s mounds through their panties. As my inhibitions have been thrown out the window with the drugs and seeing my wife become erotically engaged with another woman, I bluntly ask D if he is interested in fooling around with me. He politely declines and says that he is a straight guy but flattered that I asked. I look back through and the girls have now removed their panties and are fingering each other and after a couple of minutes, A drops down to her knees and is now face first into my wife’s vagina with my wife holding A’s head and moaning in ecstasy. K typically is not into oral sex and I’m curious if this will last long as she is a more kissing and tactile person. D and I continue talking for a bit, but I am really wanting to join the action inside and reach down and just start stroking myself as I adjust, not caring and D not minding. I look back and A is back straddling K’s lap on the couch making out with each other’s hands rubbing and fingering the other’s pussies, my wife’s legs open exposing her vagina and A’s ass up in the air with an amazing view of her tight pussy lips and asshole.
I tell D I am heading back in and ask if he’s okay with me asking to join and he says to enjoy. The girls are not fazed by my presence and I ask if I can join in a bit of the fun. They both nod while making out and I start touching my wife’s body, rubbing my hands up and down and intertwining my fingers with A’s in K’s pussy (almost as a reality check to what is occurring: my wife is having sex with a girl!) I move my hand to caressing A’s body slowly working my way up and down her back leading up to her breasts, caressing them in my hands feeling their firmness and feeling really sexual. I again ask them if this is okay and they both nod while kissing and panting as I move my hand to follow my wife’s hand to A’s vulva. I intertwine our fingers and follow my wife’s rubbing motions all while caressing another woman’s vagina with my wife. I can feel my wife’s finger curling and inserting into A’s compact vagina as she is panting away at the onslaught she is getting by A’s hand.
My mind was on overdrive at this point and I asked them if I can do a bit more and they both nod and I move to get a closer look at the action that my wife is giving A. I look over and D has stepped away while my eyes line up with A’s ass sticking up in the air. I watch my wife caress A’s pussy with her fingers and I reach my hand in and caress A’s upper ass and move my hand down to join K’s again. We both rub her vagina together for a bit and I lean my face in to get a smell of A’s scent. I can feel I am the 3rd wheel in this situation by the moans and K’s hand brushing mine away and I lean in for a lick of A’s ass. I kiss her inner check and work my way to her asshole. I can feel A’s body relax and push back as I start eating her asshole out, licking on her hole gingerly and after finding no taste I proceed to push my tongue into her. For whatever reason I knew my wife would never go down on a girl and that it would be off-limits at this point for me to lick A’s vagina, but her asshole felt as the equal turf at least that was my self-justification at the time. I proceed to start licking A’s asshole as my wife is making out and rubbing A’s pussy. I start going to town on A’s asshole, licking down into her hole and can feel her shaking from the erotic overload.
After doing this for a couple of minutes I can feel the girls shift and A slowly crawls up to cuddle with K. I take this as my cue to back off and I sit back down next to my wife as D comes back into the room. I pull my pants off, exposing my cock and piercing at which point D comments on. The girls both look over and giggle as I slowly stroke and they return to making out. I reach over to As hand and guide it over to my cock which she takes a hold of and slowly rubs as she continues kissing my wife. After a bit of time she relaxes her grip and goes back to my wife. D, who has also taken off his shorts shows his nice darker-complected cut cock that is hanging down the same length of his low hanging nut sack. It’s a nice looking cock, but you can tell he’s not hard and probably won’t be. He suggests we give them some space and go and have another hit off the pipe in the utility room and we head in there naked. At this point I take out my PA piercing and set it on the table. When we come back the girls have now separated a bit and just panting and laughing. I look at my phone and realize it’s been about 2 hours since we started the show and tell. At this point we have lite up cigarettes inside and are laughing a bit about what has just transpired. As if on cue with the awkward pause, we hear their daughter had arisen upstairs and they needed to check on her.(She was outside initially with us, but was put to bed on the 3rd floor at dinner) Both A and D went upstairs to deal with their daughter.
K and I have some alone time and start with apologizes with one another. K can’t believe what came over with her and felt bad that she had cheated on me. I explained that everyone had consented and she should not feel bad about this situation one bit. I kiss her and we embrace and start making out. She starts pulling my shirt off and I pull down my pants. I am now fully naked and I help pull my wife’s dress back off. She spreads her legs on their couch and I push my 6” cut cock into her very wet pussy and start fucking her on the couch. We are going at it, my mind fixated on what had just transpired and my wife moaning. I can tell my wife is very excited as her hole is nice and lubricated as I am fucking her. D and A both come down the stairs and gasp at us fucking on their couch, but they go about grabbing some smokes and lighting up inside. They step outside as we continuing fucking in their presence, and after about 5 more minutes I can feel myself getting close. I tell my wife and she gets ready to accept my load bringing her legs back and I deeply thrust in her as I release my seed with a series of grunts. My cock is pulsating in a way it hasn’t in a while and I can feel I am cumming a lot inside of her. We make out for another minute and she orgasms on my cock with a shutter and grabbing my back.
As we come back to reality, we both slowly get up. I grab my underwear and wipe my dick off as K walks to the bathroom. I put my shorts back on, but leave my underwear and shirt off as D and A come back into the room from outside. K comes out of the bathroom naked and we laugh nonchalantly as she tries to put her panties back on naked in front of all of us. We settle back down laughing and D brings back out his box and we all do another round. D had put his shorts on to handle their daughter and A removed her shirt and has her panties back on like my wife. We just move into picking songs to listen to as we are enjoying each other’s company as if what had just transpired didn’t faze anyone. After another hour or so of just hanging out and chatting, the girls decide to start making out again.
D and I take this cue to exit outside for a smoke. At this point I am just wanting to watch the 2nd session of my wife playing with A. I am hard again and proceed to just take my shorts off, which D had not put his back on. I ask him if I can touch his cock for a second, he agrees and I reach out and grab a hold of his flaccid but long cock in my hand. I give it a slight tug and can feel his nice girth. After a couple of seconds I release, knowing that’s the only contact we will have this evening in that fashion. I reach down and stroke my cock for a couple and look back inside to see that the women are back at making out with A on top of K and I can clearly see them rubbing each other’s pussies through their underwear. I am as aroused as I was before and start gently stroking my cock. After another 10 minutes or so we head back inside to hang out while the girls enjoy each other. You can hear the moaning and panting over the music and catch the sudden squeals of orgasms being achieved. D and I sit back down, continuing the watch the girls. After a few more minutes of this, there is another commotion heard upstairs and the girls separate so that D and A can argue about who should go get their daughter, A obviously intertwined with my wife. This killed the mood a bit and the girls separate and we slowly put our clothes back on. D and A head upstairs together after dressing while K and I again embrace about what just happened and look at the time and realize it is almost 5am. We have rarely done a bender like this in a long time and both agree we need to head home. We finish putting what clothes we needed to on, no underwear or bras and collect our things. D and A come back down and we say we need to get home and we really appreciated the hospitality. We head upstairs, pack our bags and call an Uber. We all warmly embrace and D says to a many of firsts that occurred and we all said our good byes.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? K and I get home and I am still amped up from what just occurred. We strip down and get into bed and we discuss what just occurred and try and reassure each other that we are OK. She knows I need released and reaches down and grabs my cock and starts stroking me. I ask her to finger me and she takes her other hand’s index finger and slides it firmly into my ass. I gasp and as she’s fingering me I ask her to insert a second one. At this point she is rubbing me and I gasp and my cock erupts cum flying onto my stomach and chest. We clean up and cuddle and fall asleep.
After a very hung over next day and me having to leave for a 1/2 shift in the afternoon, K and I have a bit of time apart. K is extremely hungover and sleeping the day away. We text infrequently, but the town is off. I get home and K breaks down to me that she feels extreme guilt for what occurred. I comfort her in a warm embrace and we talk about her feels and how we are great as a couple for what happened. We both were consenting adults and that this is awkward, but we are okay. We talk through the experience sharing what we remembered, K not remembering my involvement as much. I ask her if she has feelings for women and she says no, that it was just fun to try something before we have children. We laugh when she says that we should maybe hang out with our vanilla friends again. K did tell me that A had shared some intimate information about how D and A have had group sex with others before and that A had had an abortion because she wasn’t sure who the father was after one of the experiences.
We have now gotten into joking about the situation and bring it up in texts as humor, but with serious undertones. We have texted with A and D again and said that our next meet up will need to be PG rated.
On a personal note, I find it interesting that my wife was not at all interested in D, and strictly kept it about being with another female. This would be my same attitude in the situation except I would focus on the male half.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet. My wife and I agree that we need to tell one another if we share with others.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Watching my wife explore her sexuality as I have done numerous times before. Letting a situation open organically, it was way more erotic this way than if it were planned.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My fear my wife is not telling me things, given her stating before she is not interested in girls but then this happened. I have swirled a bit on this, even though I am the one way more likely to cheat than she would be. I wasn’t ready for this
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not for me, but I believe my wife was wowed by the situation and may have opened her eyes to more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I believe casual sex is great and we should not feel pigeon holed into thinking you have to be in a serious relationship to get pleasure. I am hoping that tis experience means that my wife and I can occasionally cross into including others in our sexuality, but that will be after we have children.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is great for people like myself to share my story and how the experience left me feeling emotionally.
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