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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Pretoria
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Wife’s First Time Shared

How long ago did this hookup happen? 19 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night Stand / My fantasy

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is a beautiful, sexy brunette with a nice body and very nice boobs, but her biggest asset is her pussy. She is simply gorgeous!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I always had this fantasy of watching my wife have sex with another man. I go crazy just thinking that she is having wild sex and the time of her life. Please remember this is my fantasy and not hers. When I realized that, although she did not admit it or say anything, I knew all the girls at the riding club had a thing for the trainer. He’s well-built and good looking and had a very comfortable way with a woman. I knew that they found him attractive and that if they were anything like a man at all, his name would come up in their fantasies. I spend many nights awake thinking of the possibility of him fucking my wife and fantasized about her having wild orgasms while becoming a sex-craved dominant wife for me from time to time. I felt that if I could only get her to taste another cock only once that she will enjoy the experience with me and that it could be our secret in this boring “must be prim and proper” everyday world.

I started to introduce my fantasies into our sex live, asking her to imagine that she is being fucked by another dick while she is sucking my cock. After a while, I realized that this made her wild, and later on, she started to tell me what this other dick was doing to her while I was fucking her. This pushed me over the limit and I would always blow my load there and then. It drove me crazy.

Later on, I started to ask her if she will be willing to do “it” but she did not want to do it. This drove me crazy as it felt to me as if we were no longer honest with each other. I had to live a life where I had to suppress my wildest dreams and tell her that I was dead happy with the normal everyday way of doing things. I could not and to be honest I cannot live with that thought even today. It is breaking me up piece by piece. Ok, but back to then. I kept on pushing the fantasy and later on, she started to play with it when I talked to her about it during sex. Then one day, she gave me the shock of my life! There was not as much planning involved as you would think, other than me fantasizing about this almost every day.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One Saturday afternoon while I was getting ready to mow the lawn, she went to take a long relaxing bath. We arranged to go out that evening with her horse training to have dinner, as we were getting along well and saw him almost every week at the stables. That was it! Nothing more! Only dinner. Then as I started to mow the lawn, I walked passed the bathroom window and decided to ask one more time. “We are going out to dinner why don’t you make my fantasy come true?” And then, the shock of my life! “Ok, I’Il do it because if I don’t you will never forget about it and leave this idea alone will you? But I am only going to do this once!” I literally almost passed out next to the lawnmower. Did I hear correctly? Did my wife just agree to make my life perfect? I almost did not want to breathe or make a sound so afraid was I that she will say that she was joking or that she changed her mind.

She spent hours in that bathroom that afternoon and I was wondering what was she doing? How much did she prepare? Was she fantasizing? was she exited? was she nervous? What was she going to wear? Was she playing with herself? As I finished with the lawn and walked past the bathroom, I was too shaky to open the door and as I stood outside and asked her if she was ready for tonight. She said maybe, and asked me how will it work? My mind was rushing through thousands of options on how to make this work. And I remember thinking why did I not take the time to plan this properly! All I could come up with was that during dinner, I would walk out and act as if I received a call and come back saying I have to leave for work asap as we had a crisis on a project in another town. My boss would pick me up thus leaving her to get a ride with him back home.

That night was blurry as I could hardly focus on anything. I was nervous and excited to the point where I almost became ill. I loved it. Before long, I realized I would have to make my move as it was getting late. I walked out and made the pretend call. On my return, I explained to my he and my wife that there was a crisis and we needed to see the project owner first thing tomorrow morning and my boss wanted us to leave right away as it was a few hours drive and we would have to spend the night. I asked if he would be ok with taking my wife back home? He agreed and I apologized and walked out before I collapsed, or at least before I thought I would collapse from the sexual tension. I rushed back home and suddenly realized I had no decent plan. I was afraid to park in the garage as I thought he might wonder why my car was at home. I went into the house and made sure all the curtains had a small opening in all the rooms for me to peek through.

This was not my dream, but I had no better plan. I would have to be satisfied to watch my wife being drilled by another man. Then I drove to a spot where I could see the road leading to our home. After a while, it felt like ages, but it was barely more than a half-hour I saw his car coming around the corner. After giving them about 15 mins, I left the car and ran up to the house. Was our plan going to work? How was she going to ask him?? I had a million questions and no answers and a pounding heart with throbbing cock! I opened the yard door and snuck into the back. I was trembling with excitement to all the questions.

I looked in the main bedroom window and they were not there, then off to the guest bedroom…nope. Then I went to the living room and there they were… Fuck! He was kissing her right there on the couch! This was making me so horny, she was really doing it! I got so nervous that I sat there for longer than I thought. After a while, I thought to look again and as I peeked through the window, I noticed thy were not on the coach. They had moved to the bedroom!! I moved to the bedroom as well, and could hear them. I took a peek and saw that he was riding her with her legs together. He was on top of her and his naked bud was pounding her. I could not see more detail as the angle was limited and I had to be very careful about not being seen.

Then I made the mistake of my life. Instead of watching, I got so nervous about being caught I decided to go back to the car, holding my dick through my pant pocket the whole time. My mind and dick wanted to explode. As I returned to the car, I wanted to kill myself. Why did I not stay and watch!!! What is wrong with me!!! After a while, I saw his car leave. Now to go back. I was so horny!! As I walked to the door, she opened it and stood there with her shirt and denim, with its zipper only halfway up. Then I knew she loved that another cock fucked her cunt! That night, I fucked her like crazy and I remember that she woke me in the middle of the night and fucked me like crazy again! Her mind was racing, she loved it!!!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She struggles to think that one can love a person and want to have wild sex with another at the same time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Desire

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Partner only

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Wow, she almost became my dream wife.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That she did not find it as mesmerizing as me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. Make sure you and your partner are on the same page before deciding to get married. If not, you are going to regret that area for a very long time.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I only wish my wife could be more open and honest about her feelings.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its ok, but can go much deeper.

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