What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? United States, Ohio Valley
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Highly sexually driven
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

My Wife’s Helicopter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was, and is, a lifelong friend of my wife’s.I had met her through my wife at various gatherings.She was very sociable and her and my wife were very open about sex lives.  Short,kinda full bodied, nice ass.  My wife’s tits are 44ddd and hers are BIGGER than that, so I always looked at them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had a cookout and after several people had left, my wife, this woman, and another lifelong friend of theirs and I were on the back porch.  My wife had already, and I knew this, told her friends about how big my dick was and that I could take it and spin it like a helicopter.Her friends said they believed she was exaggerating so she told me to show them! I was astonished, but didn’t hesitate! To give you a better picture, I can lay on my back, curl myself onto my shoulders and suck my own cock.  I stood in front of them, pulled my pants down and started swirling it! Of course this alone turned me on and as they kept their eyes glued on it in silence it turned me on that much more.  As the rest were leaving her friend whispered in my ear, “I give great head”.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After everyone else left us three were sitting in the living room and the conversation turned to how big “her” breasts were.  I made a comment about how I was going to have to go jack-off if they didn’t stop.  My wife suggested that I do the helicopter – again, I didn’t hesitate, only this time I was almost completely hard and I stood in front of “her” and was lightly stroking it until it was rock hard.She didn’t ask any questions,she pulled her shirt up,pulled her bra off and WOW! Just the fact of us being exposed to one another in front of my wife was awesome! My wife said no touching so I ended up jacking off and cumming on her tits! It was a big load to say the least. We all three were conversing the whole time about dick and tit sizes.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Everyone’s relationship is still normal, other than us referring to “the helicopter” and having a chuckle. It actually was a mutually awesome experience for us. Great caution is exercised between me and ” her” because I know she wants to at least give me a blowjob and I want one from her. Occasionally I jack-off thinking she is and even jack-off to what really happened,I loved it!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Prescription pain killers (Vicodin, Percoset, Demerol, Dilaudid)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Prescription pain killers (Vicodin, Percoset, Demerol, Dilaudid)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone but my wife told a few people.  One in particular asked when is it her turn!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to see another naked woman that I knew another way beforehand and being able to show her what I have in front of my wife.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really was bad.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.  My wife and I have done this again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It started as a total out of the blue thing. I actually have found that my wife has told numerous people and bragged about my size.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has been an experience of mine throughout my life and relationships,that women are curious and susceptible to temptation about big dicks, as men are with big tits.  I have had sexual experiences with several women who I have purposefully exposed myself to who, I think, succumbed to curiosity and several experiences because of word of mouth.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!  I would like to interact more but fear my wife’s reaction about past encounters.

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