by Julia Emerald

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Boulder, CO
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sex Educator, Writer, Mother, Adventurer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? not as many as you’d think but not enough
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? first one

My Young Student

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was much younger than me and a college student at the local college. Born in Canada, raised in Hong Kong where his family was from, and spent early teen years through now in America. Very cute and sexy with nice shoulders and caramel skin.

We connected on tinder and after chatting he proposed to me a most fascinating and erotic arrangement. He confessed he’d only had two sexual partners and only had once with each at the age of 21 (attractive nerd focused on school) and asked me since I was older to be his sex teacher. It’s always been a fantasy of mine to tutor a younger man sexually and I liked how wicked smart and confident he seemed so I accepted the offer. We met to talk about the possibility.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met the day after Christmas at a brewery to explore our sex teacher/student idea. We did a lot of relationship negotiation which was good. He was very honest and so was I. Great way to start.
After drinks, he talked me into coming over to my house for just a “little while” haha and we made out. I gave him a little instruction about kissing and told him to keep his tongue in his mouth for the first minute or two at least of kissing. Early tongue is as bad as early dick. Don’t rush to stick it in.
It was clear he didn’t have much experience but he had a natural erotic intelligence, took instruction well and learned very quickly.
The first time we only made-out. He was all over me, incredibly turned on and tried to do more but I sent the little horny wild one away till our next time and he very respectfully obliged.  I love younger men. Younger and respectful.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Our fun consisted of lots of sensual play, some learning (me instructing gently as well as me sending him resources and articles to read which he readily devoured) and intensely erotic experiences, all full of sweetness, respect and mutual care.
Our second meeting we got naked together he was so turned on he was grabbing my body and devouring it so passionately I was quite sore the next day. I’ve never had my body worshiped with such intensity! It was incredibly HOT. We decided not to have intercourse but to wait till our next meeting and enjoyed getting each other off with our hands and mouths.
Our third meeting I bought us some chocolate covered strawberries… which unexpectedly became a tool of laughter and kinky deliciousness. After making out, I bit into a strawberry and the chocolate pieces fell off and dripped onto my bare breasts. “Let me get that for you!” he said playfully as he dipped his head down to lick all the pieces off. We ate the strawberries that way the rest of the night cleaning each other off and laughing.

Whenever we got together or talked on the phone he got super turned on immediately. Since I was his first sexual relationship he associated me strongly with sex and even hearing my voice turned him on. I loved our power dynamics like that and also our roles as teacher and student. We joked about them and made kinky comments. He would ask “Please teacher can I…?” facetiously and I enjoyed playing back.
I showed him my wide array of sex toys giving him a thorough education and when I whipped out the bondage tape, I jokingly tied his hands up with it. He got really turned on. Pretty sure I turned him kinky forever. I never stopped hearing about how much he wanted to tie me up after that haha

Before one of the times we met I sent him pictures of new panties I’d bought. He asked me to wear a specific one that night for him, a bright pink thong with tiny lace trim. When I opened the door to let him in, he pinned me down kissing my lips passionately. I had to stop him and beg him to let me up so I could eat my dinner which I hadn’t snarfed in my flurry to get ready. He smiled warmly and told me I could get up on one condition: I take my pants off and let him worship my ass in the new panties.
My pants came off and I fixed my dinner while he knelt kissing, licking and squeezing my ass telling me how fucking gorgeous it was. GAWD so sexy…
After I ate and we were talking I casually laid down on my bed when he suddenly interrupted me and whipped out his phone saying “oh yes… just like that.” He directed me on how to move my body as I posed for him taking pictures of my nearly naked body. Now you understand hopefully why I’m writing a novel about this hookup.  It was so hot and I have to share it with the world.

Our power dynamics were interesting because I was in control of the relationship and overall experience as the teacher and older more experienced party, but he was clearly dominant sexually.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had a great time.
He was really sweet and so innocent. I loved our time together and am grateful.
It ended a little poorly with complex feelings on my end. I was in an emotionally empty phase of my life where I really longed for intimacy and companionship and I started to fall for him because he was so unbelievably honest, loving, erotic, intelligent and compassionate. All the things I love. I was comfortable with my feelings and letting them be there without demanding more but it became clear the relationship wouldn’t work well to continue so I broke it off. More things happened complicating it and I didn’t want to get hurt or tether him either. We stayed friends for a little while and he was always sweet as candy.

I hope he’s off having kinky adventures with women who value everything he has to offer and having fun. I hope he learned some good things from me to make him a better lover and I cherish the intensely erotic and sweet memories I have of him. Best student ever.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, a diaphragm.

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, attraction to partner(s), learning new things, experimenting, emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, power and dominance.

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent.

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends and they’ve always found it extremely kinky, hot, and interesting.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How fun, free, kinky, sweet and hot it was. He was a stellar partner.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Neither of us understood ourselves enough or our needs at the outset to clearly negotiate our emotional and relational needs. I tried my best but he didn’t have a frame of reference because I was his first relationship and also either did not know or did not disclose he was looking for/wanting a serious girlfriend when we started. We weren’t suited for that in his mind and realistically so it meant I was in danger of being the side girl tossed away when he found that. That’s why when that seemed what might happen I jumped ship. If I had known then he was really wanting a girlfriend (and not me as it) I might have not engaged but then again I wouldn’t have had this great experience. It’s cool with me now.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Brought a lot of awareness to me for my own needs and desires in relationships and affirmed my need to more proactively voice them and also gave me hope to find more compassionate, loving, respectful AND highly sexual/erotic/confident partners. Best combo.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Would you like to be my little student?? Haha, just kidding.

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