by It happened to me

Gender: Male
Age: 60
Race/ethnicity: American
Current location: Mid-Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Real guy
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60- ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None


How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Nancy in a bar one night while I was in between marriages. The first thing I noticed was her eyes. She was an exotic beauty with dark Mediterranean skin tone, well proportioned and very lady like. We spoke only briefly, just a hot lady out with girlfriends for fun and flirting. I was in the band so most of the night I watched her and a girlfriend dance to the rock and flirt with her moves as we played. She dance some slower songs with guys but I kept catching her staring at me. Before the next break the girls were gone.
I saw her again a month later at a town music fest off in the crowd. I walked over and reintroduced myself, our eyes stayed locked. She let me know that Nancy was her cover name she introduced herself.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a brief chat, out of the blue she says, “I would like to s**k your d**k and lick your b**ls.”  After the initial shock I noticed her wedding ring so I asked about him and she said it was not an issue for her and asked if I was open. From there we walked over to a nearby public building while we spoke as if two strangers in a crowd since we both knew people in the area. My heart was racing by now.
As soon as we entered the building we stood in an isolated alcove and began to kiss and grope. There was no plan, this was about as fast as it gets.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I reached in her bra and lifted her breast to my mouth as she lifted my c**k from above my belt leaving it latched and my pants on. Soon the warm sensation of her mouth filled me with wonder.  I saw some folks entering the building so we went under the stairwell and continued. After the stairwell we entered the elevator where she dropped to her knees, opened my pants and continued to amaze me with her talents. Each place only lasted for five incredible minutes at the most. After maybe 20 minutes together she said she had to find her son. She gave her business card to me and floated away.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Dream come true? 
A beautiful woman, a chance encounter, she initiated, a warm spring day.
I’m a guy….

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great and continued to see her on rare hookups. She is quite attractive to this day.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not in the least. I believe it was wrong and any cheating. She still wants more to this day.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Once in a life experience of a beautiful woman doing the pursuing and no strings sex.
I still wish that I had married my first love and never had another. Life does not always happen as we wish.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I am glad for guilt and God’s conviction. I would be wilder and in more trouble otherwise.

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