by Pammy

: Female
Age: 35
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 yrs ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were on a work trip and I had never met him until a week prior. We were in Bahrain at a fancy hotel and out first social outing was a group dinner. He was 20 yrs older at 48, married, covered with tatts, shaved head, big and muscly and in the navy. He was the total opposite to anyone I had ever met. I thought he was sexy and very funny and I was attracted to him but didn’t think anything of it coz he was married.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the dinner just he and I went to a bar and had a few drinks. We then went back to the hotel and we were staying on the same floor so I said goodnight to him and he told me I was sexy and I went back to my room. But then I was like, I’m horny and I feel like a fuck so I went back to the room and we had sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I wanted to fuck him coz I was curious as to what a guy like that is like. We started kissing and he told me to lie on the bed whilst he brushed his teeth (lol) he then came back and started oral sex straight away and then he turned me over and licked my ass which turned me on straight away and was shocked at how good he was and how into it he was. He wanted to kiss a lot and was very keen to please me, asking me what I wanted. I then went down on him and we fondled a lot and he was very assertive which I liked. He couldn’t get hard though as he claimed he drank too much!!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None and no

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horny and he turned me on and I was curious as to what it would be like.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol, me not too much but for him a lot.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After h failed to get hard he insisted I stay so that we could spoon whilst we slept. But I left shortly after co he snored and we had work commitments the next day. The next day we didn’t talk about it but i asked if i could come by his rom tonight against and he as happy and insisted he prove himself and apologized for the night before. That night we successfully had sex and the following day we spent a lot of time in bed together talking, fucking and pleasuring one another. We actually became good friends and til this day we see each other only once or twice but still have incredible sex. What I thought would be a one off experiment type thing has continued into a friendship.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I thought I would but no never

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was meeting him and enjoying different types of sexual pleasure. The worst that I was cheating on my partner and that he was married so nothing would eventuate.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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