What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Jersey City
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Specialist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M was my neighbor in an apt building. Our 2 apartments were the only ones on the top (4th) floor. We casually had said hi to each other and explained pleasantries. We had also bummed cigarettes off each other.
She was about 8 years older than me, a single mother who lived alone with her daughter. She had a ridiculously fit body and an average face. She dressed sexy most of the time. I knew she smoked weed as well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? 2 or 3 times as I was entering my apartment I had heard her having sex. She was very loud. Each time I heard her I would stay longer and listen.
One Friday night not much was going on. I was out with some friends for happy hour but everyone went home.
I picked up a 12 pack off beer and walked home. When I got home I came decided to knock on my neighbor’s door and ask for a pack of matches so I could have a cigarette. I had a lighter but wanted to make it known that I was alone next door with beer and that she could come by later after she got her daughter to sleep. She said ok. I doubted she would come. About an hour later she knocks on my door.
She comes in with wine, I ask her if she wants to smoke she does. Some how the conversation turns to how sexy her body is. I make a comment about how I would pay to see her naked. She laughs and says something like how much do hookers get paid these days anyway.
I was like I don’t know. She said I think 200.
I said “ok I’ll you give 200” She said “ok next Thursday.” And we agreed. It happened really fast my mind was kinda blown.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was actually in disbelief that this stupid idea was working but I had to pay 200 bucks for it. But I said fuck. She wanted to smoke again so I asked her to smoke naked. She ran back to her apartment and got her bong. She came and took off her skin tight jeans and tank top. No bra because she had tiny tits.
After we smoked I asked her to sit on my face as I sat in a reclining chair. She did and she screamed like I heard her with a few other guys through our thin walls.
Over the next 6 hours, continued to fuck M eat her pussy, ass and have her do the same too with intermittent smoke breaks. Finally around 5 in the morning I was fucking doggy style with a condom and blew my load in her. She asked where I came and I said inside. She said don’t worry about I have other protection.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A couple days later she came knocking on the door to get her 200 bucks. It was the best 200 I ever spent.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a couple of my boys no one knows this story
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fuckin for hours
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Just ask it might happen
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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