What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 300
A New Fuck-Buddy
How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll call her Erica. She’s a brunette, about my age, athletically built and with curves in all the right places. We used to work together a few years ago and always flirted but nothing ever happened because she had a serious boyfriend at the time. She now lives in Manchester but spends a lot of time in London for work. She contacted me and suggested we meet up. As it turned out, this was because she already had a ‘friends with benefits’ deal with a guy back home, but was looking for a guy to hook up with regularly when she came to London.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We arranged to meet for drinks in the bar of the hotel she was staying in, on a Thursday night at about 9pm after we’d both finished work. We got on just as well as we always had and there was obvious chemistry there, helped by a few glasses of wine each. After a couple of hours, she told me she’d better be getting to bed, then asked me if I wanted to join her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got to her room, we were all over each other. After a bit of kissing, she unzipped my trousers and started playing with my cock, and I responded by hiking up her dress and slipping my hand inside her panties to finger her. Then she told me to lie on the bed, and she pulled down my trousers and boxers and started sucking my cock. It was unbelievable. Eventually, she stopped and started taking her clothes off in front of me, and I got my first view of her fantastic body. I took my clothes off too, got a condom from my jacket pocket and put it on, and she climbed on top of me and started riding me, moaning as she worked herself up and down on my cock.
Before long, she stopped and told me she wanted me to fuck her from behind. She got on all fours on the edge of the bed and I stood behind her and started fucking her doggystyle. Her moans got louder and faster, which spurred me on to fuck her harder, and I could hardly contain myself watching her arse cheeks jiggle as I slammed into her.
Finally, we fucked as she lay on her back on the bed. I kept getting harder and faster as her breasts jiggled around and at the same time I worked her clit with my thumb until she came, at which point I only needed a few more thrusts before I came inside her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She suggested I stay the night in her room, but I had an early meeting the next morning and had to get home. Instead I suggested she should abandon her train home the following evening and come to my place instead, and she agreed. We’ve now established a regular fuck-buddy type arrangement.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We were able to feel very relaxed with each other very quickly and the sex was extremely hot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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