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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Co Director
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A lot

New Year’s Eve Orgy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My primary partner was my then ‘special’ FWB. I had been seeing him for around 10 months after meeting him online. Our arrangement was specifically that we would be each other’s primary FWB, but both of us had other FWBs or FBs we would continue to see. Both of us didn’t want to have a relationship. After a while, it became that we were special FWBs because our relationship was not really akin to your standard FWB arrangement in that we spent a lot of time together doing lots of things as well as having sex and met a lot of each other’s friends and accompanied each other to functions, etc. Many people we know assumed we were a couple and we had developed pretty strong feelings for each other, there was a lot of holding hands and cuddling. 2 days after the events in this story, we had a talk and decided to officially become a couple. We agreed to try an open relationship because of the various other people in our lives and also because both of us don’t really believe monogamy works. So far so good. He is 5 years younger than me, is average-short height, has short brown hair, blue eyes and is in good shape. He is highly intelligent and is also extremely straight up/honest/talks to me about stuff.

Our other partners this evening included:
A dark-skinned couple probably of similar age, maybe slightly younger
A couple around my age, she was of average build with brown hair, he was French and kind of looked it.
A red-haired curvy woman
A really really beautiful brunette
A larger woman with enormous breasts.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were away for New Year’s Eve in a different city. We decided it would be fun to see in the New Year at a swinger’s club. We had discussed that it would be fun to do this a few months in advance and had bought tickets. He brought it up first, saying he’d always thought it would be a fun thing to do. I said we should do it. It wasn’t an unusual thing for us to be talking about, we had both been to a swinger’s club before, just not with each other.

On the night, we were both feeling really excited. We were in a hotel and took some time to get ready, showering, shaving etc, and dressing carefully. Then we went out to a bar and drank champagne for quite a while as the party started late. When it was time to go to the party, we walked to the venue and went in. I didn’t really feel nervous, just excited. There were loads of really attractive younger people there so I wondered if we were not really the right demographic (a bit old). We went to the bar and talked to a few people, everyone was really friendly. There were a few first timers there who we talked to a bit. We’d had the tour of the upstairs play areas and we went and had a look but nothing was happening yet. After we’d had our drinks, it was basically midnight so we did the countdown and yelled happy new year etc, then he suggested we should kick things off. I felt really happy that he was the kind of person who’d get straight into it. We went to the changing rooms and undressed, wrapping a towel around our waists. He then took my hand and we walked through the bar to head upstairs.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to one of the rooms where there was a bed and a couch and removed our towels. He sat on the couch and I knelt down and sucked his cock for a bit before he lifted me up and got me to sit on his lap and ride him. By now quite a few people had come up from the bar and were watching. I kissed him and rode him quite slowly as we didn’t want things to go too fast! After a while, we stopped and he led me to the bed and lay me on my back and started to eat my pussy. He is a very dedicated pussy-licker and did this for quite a long time. Another couple joined us on the bed and started doing the same. She and I stroked each other’s bodies and breasts while the guys ate us.

After this bit, we had a break and a look around, and then found a room with a really ginormous bed. A few people were already on it, so we joined in and had some missionary sex. More and more people were getting on the bed. There was a redhead next to me who started kissing me and touching my breasts, so I asked her if I could lick her, she said yes, so I got between her legs and started licking her and fingering her. It had been a while for me and I was really getting into that, she tasted lovely and seemed to appreciate my efforts. My guy got behind me and fucked me from behind while I ate her. I can’t remember what her guy was going, just watching I think. Then we swapped places and while she ate me, I sucked my guy’s cock, and it all felt so great. There were people everywhere and it was getting pretty crowded on the bed. After I finished with her, we kind of looked the other way and there was a dark-skinned couple on the other side of us, they were fucking but then she leaned over and started kissing me. She was really beautiful and had a lovely body, which I stroked. He was bald and kind of chubby and had a tiny cock. We quite quickly changed partners, and although I wasn’t super into him, I was happy to go along with it, because of her. I was on my back with this guy fucking me, she was diagonal to me on all fours, with my guy fucking her doggy style, and she and I were kissing and sucking each other’s nipples. It was the first time I’d seen my man fucking someone else, so I was interested to observe and see how I felt and I really enjoyed it. We smiled at each other and the whole thing felt really great, aside from the fact I couldn’t even feel that guy inside me. He kind of knew it, so he stopped fucking me and instead gave me a really nice finger fuck, vigorous and dedicated, and I came. We did this for a while, then stopped and had a break and a wander around. Lots was happening now and it was fun to look at all the sex, especially as some of the people were very attractive. We got back to the bed and these 2 absolutely breathtakingly beautiful women came in. The brunette lay on her back and the blonde started eating her. I smiled at the brunette and she gestured for me to come over. We kissed quite passionately and then I sucked her nipples, but then I left them to it, but we watched for a bit because it was quite beautiful.

There’s a bit in the middle here where I can’t really remember everything. I know I enjoyed eating several pussies but I can’t remember one around this stage.

Then a really large woman came in and she wasn’t really very attractive, but she had the most ginormous and really fascinating breasts. We chatted to her and her partner and it was their second time at a club but they’d never done anything with anyone. She’d never touched or kissed a woman and asked if she could touch my breasts. I wasn’t really attracted to her but I let her, and then I touched her breasts (I did want to do that, they were quite something) and I kissed her just so she could try it, but it wasn’t very nice so we left the room after that.

We had a drink and a naked dance which was a lot of fun, then he found a glowstick. I bent over one of the tables in the bar and he used the glowstick to play with my clit then fucked me with it, it was like a little show for the people in the bar, and I enjoyed being watched. We then went back upstairs and met another couple around my age. She was a pretty brunette and she and I ate each other out, while our partners stroked our bodies and breasts. I made her come so I felt pretty decent. After that, we both fucked in our own couples beside each other. We’d been at it for a couple of hours by now and were getting tired, so decided we were finishing up here. I got on top and rode him cowgirl because I always come and squirt riding him, without fail and we thought that would be a fun ending. He usually comes when I squirt on him cause he loves that, and he did, so we orgasmed together then went back downstairs and hung out in the bar a bit, lying around naked and having some water.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we’d had a little rest, we got dressed and left. We saw lots of our partners as we were leaving and all waved goodbye.

We were on a complete high and we decided to walk home to our hotel even though it was quite a long walk. We were holding hands and we sang all the way home, we took turns to name a song.

Back in the hotel room, when we got into bed, we hugged and kissed and talked about the night and how much fun it had been. I was quite surprised when he went down on me again and gave me a fabulous orgasm and then we fucked in missionary, kissing and smiling at each other and he came again, which is not usual for him. We fell asleep exhausted.

We’ve talked about the night quite a bit. It’s a good memory. We both really enjoyed it and also really enjoyed doing it together, we thought we worked well together in the situation. We plan to do it again, we’d like to swing 3 or 4 times a year, we don’t want it to be too regular, just an occasional extra to our already pretty fantastic sex life.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Absolutely no-one other than my partner.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finding out that playing with my new partner is even more fun than when I did this by myself.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The large woman’s kiss

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, just reinforced what I already thought.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve answered this one before!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. I haven’t shared a story for ages but I’ve still been reading.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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