by Emmy

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Location: Cincinnati, OH
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 28
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

New Year’s Resolution

How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost 6 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a tall, blonde stranger with a pretty face and fit body. We met at a nice bar in Columbus on New Year’s Eve. I was the youngest person in the group I came with (my friend and her much older brother who we were visiting and his friends) and probably the youngest person at the bar. I would have pegged everyone else somewhere between their late twenties and early thirties. Feeling out of place and awkward, I drank myself to a stupor. I blacked out before midnight, but I allegedly gave the tall, blonde stranger my midnight kiss.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He took me to his house. I vaguely remember being piggy-backed to his house because there were no cabs.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I don’t remember the first time we had sex. I woke up naked in a stranger’s bed and couldn’t initially remember meeting or going home with someone. I was scared and started to cry, but he helped me to remember and assured me he was no danger to me. He said he had no idea I was so drunk, which I later believed when my friend told me she had no idea either. I calmed down but felt quite embarrassed. We talked a little, but I ended up getting on top of him. We had sex again, this time sober enough to remember. It was decent sex but pretty mild. He told me I was sexy a lot, which I liked, especially when coming from someone I also found very attractive.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, lots of Jameson and adderall to stay awake for midnight which I ended up not even remembering…

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My friend came and picked me up early in the morning. I regretted it only because I had abandoned her and made her pick me up at 6 a.m.. Random hookups were expected of me from her, but not in a city unfamiliar to me where I was supposed to be a visitor. My friend’s brother and his friends got a lot of amusement out of teasing me for my little escapade the next morning. Apparently the man I hooked up with was another friend of theirs whose nickname was “donkey dick.” My friend asked me if his penis was really that big. I didn’t really remember, but I thought about and realized that my vagina was extremely sore, so it must have been true.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made a good story. Having something to laugh about made my hangover a little less horrible, but overall it was pretty insignificant.  If anything, it gave me a New Year’s resolution to put my friends before my sexcapades.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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