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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Many

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met Don at work. He was living with a guy. He was about 5′-6″, 180, chubby but not a fatty. Blond, getting bald, light complexion, little body hair, big long & thick cut cock. Nice butt. Nice smile wide mouth. 23-years old, I was 20 at the time. Very clean.
Don’s partner George, traveled for business a lot, several days away at a time. George did not fool around at all and Don was not supposed to do others. When George was home, it was strictly social with friends. Years later, I had sex with George, later story.
I was totally in the closet at work & had girl friends. The only people that knew I was gay or Bi, were my fuck buddies. I lived by myself in my own apartment.
I never at first tried anything with him, until one day while visiting, walking past his bedroom,gotr an accidental peek of his body. Liked it all, the big (flaccid) cock & nice ass. I did not think that he saw me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Don became very friendly with me, inviting me over for dinner & drinks with him & George & others.
One day, Don invited me for dinner that night. Got there, but George was away on a trip.
Don wore just a long dressing gown around the house, said he liked to be comfortable at home.
We ate and afterwards he went into his bedroom to watch TV & make a phone call to his sister. Told me to follow. He laid on the bed talking on the phone & watching TV. I sat down next to him for awhile, getting horny & a hard on.
While he was blabbing, I went for it. Put my hand on his lower leg, below the hem, & started up feeling him. My hand went up his inner thigh until I reached his cock that was starting to harden up.
At that point, he told his sister that something came up (the truth) and he would call her back. I eventually fucked her, another story for later.
He pulled me towards him, our lips met and we frenched.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went down on the big cock, the largest to that date, & deep throated him. Pulled off after a bit, said I wanted it up my ass. Straddled him and tried to get it in. We tried for at least awhile. Finally, the head popped in. What a feeling. Then slowly all the way. A slow hump at first then plowing. He came a gallon in my butt it seemed. I leaked for hours afterward. An hour later he fucked me again as well as another two times that night.
After the first fuck, he gave me a blow job, & again after each fuck.
I stayed the night and the next day. Lost count how many times.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We say each other many times in the next 30 years. He passed away at 53. I went to his funeral and afterward had sex with George.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Later with some others.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Did it much

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Have to stop at times

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Love it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Don had many friends that would visit him, had sex with a few of them, sometimes with him also. He kept a stock or box of Kotex pads that I & we would tuck up our cracks under our briefs, to keep the Cum from leaking out onto the chairs.
A few times if George was sleeping, did stuff.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is natural.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting.

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