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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Nice Is Nice

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a middle-aged married lady. We met at a conference over lunch. She was wearing a nice dress. Classy and sexy. We started to chat.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had spoken of a plan over the conference and after the day. I told her that I would be heading to the beach and told her to join in. She told me she would only be here 3 days.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were at the beach. It all started with some sun lotion putting over her. At the beach, there were lots of girls and she was teasing me about me watching them. Told her I was happy with my view already. She has quite a firm, toned body for her age. In the sea, we were like quite touchy and then it just happened. I started fingering her until she orgasmed. We then headed to my apartment as it was close by.
Once at my place, she just bent herself over the kitchen table and told me to fuck her. I licked her asshole and started to fuck her in the ass until I came inside her.

We had quite a few rounds of kinky sex. She licked me and I also tried fisting her, but she was in so much pain that she told me to stop.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning before going to the conference, she gave me a nice head and I started to fuck her while she was on the phone with her husband. That was really hot.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way she let me fuck her like a real bitch. That’s what she wanted.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Did not get to completely fist her.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nah

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place to share

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