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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2-3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many

Nice To See Him Again

How long ago did this hookup happen? New years day

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This is the person who I had a casual arrangement last year and expected not to hear from him after he moved out of his own place and in with a roommate 4 months ago. Also, he began a new position during that time. We kept occasional contact via work email and wasn’t expecting to hook-up again until…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began with a text to greet me happy new year. I replied back and he asked what I was doing that day. I was at home and asked if he wanted to come over since his roommate was away. I used this opportunity to sneak away from home and said that I was going for a walk to his place. After 10 mins of google maps, his place wasn’t too far and I managed to get to the place just as it was about to rain.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He let me into his place and into his room. As soon as he closed the door, we chatted a little to see how things were and then I took my shoes off and proceeded to take my top off. He sat on his bed and took out his dick and I gave him a blowjob. He unhooked my bra and then removed my pants, revealing a purple thong. After that, I crawled on his bed and he took my thong off and fingered me a little and then made my pussy wet.

I got onto all fours and then he inserted his dick and it felt so good. He missed fucking my pussy for sure. We fucked in this a fair bit, then he laid on his bed to finger me but wanted his dick. I climbed on top with my back and arse facing him, held my hips and squeezing my arse and rocking his dick back and forth. He liked seeing my arse again. Then, I faced him and my hands against the wall and he thrust into me for a bit and then back to all fours and minutes later he came hard all over my back. I felt it all over my back and butt.

We watched a few UFC post fight videos on youtube and then his dick became hard again and fucked doggy again. He pounded and squirted a little on his bed sheet. He got a towel to place and then continued fucking like this. I couldn’t hold it in and came and then later on, he came again on the towel. He asked if I was good and replied it was good. 🙂

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We watched more youtube until he decided to shower. He asked how workplace was and repiled wanting to move on and then I asked about his job. He mentioned travelling between 2 sites, one being 1-2 hours away and may move there when the time comes.

I got dressed and then walked back home and it was great to fuck and see him again. I don’t know if we will get another chance to hook-up as the only chance is when his roommate is away and also above.He has my number and I don’t mind if we hook-up again whilst he’s still around. Likewise, no expectations 🙂

He has my number and I don’t mind if we hook-up again whilst he’s still around. Likewise, no expectations 🙂

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing him and his dick again. Fucking like we did when he lived on his own and having fun for a short time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing major other than rain and having to sneak away from home. Only chance is when he has the place to himself. Knowing we won’t be able to hook-up as much as we can as before.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I didn’t expect him to message me 4 months after he left my workplace and place, but a new year day presented an opportunity like this. I am glad that we met up again as we may not have another chance. I did feel pretty good afterwards.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? In between the 4 months until now, I had casual fun with a different from uni (another story) but I lost interest and didn’t end up continuing as it became too hard to schedule another meetup with that person. That person was kind of boring anyway.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Said it in previous stories but don’t expect this to develop any further.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good stuff.

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