Current location: New Hampshire
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Night Of Firsts
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, muscular, mysterious, and handsome, we met in college as art students. We had an instant sexual connection, staring at eachother from across the room for about a month before he asked to come to a show with him. I was hesitant for about ten minutes because I had a boyfriend but agreed to accompany him. I knew that I was going to let him fuck me that night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Even in a crowded art gallery we were so entranced with eachother that we didn’t notice anyone or anything else. We made our way to a private corner and shared a passionate kiss, I had never felt anything like that before, I was only 18 at the time and I knew he was older than me but we hadn’t talked about it yet. I could feel that neither of us were paying attention to the gallery and asked if we could leave together, we drove back to his apartment and I followed him to his bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He picked me up and held me against the wall, kissed me, and licked my neck. He laid me onto the bed and we started to undress eachother, before anything happened he asked me my age, because I’m very small and look young, I told him 18 and asked him the same. He seemed shocked by my age and told me that he was 30 and that he wasn’t an art student, but a mentor. I hadn’t been with anyone who was so much older than me before but it made him even sexier to me. We didn’t talk about age for any longer and continued where we left off. We were completely naked and he began to lick my pussy, I orgasmed after about ten minutes and then went down on him. He was pulling my hair while I gave him head and begged me to ride him. I got on top and he came inside me almost instantly, raving about how tight I am and how perfect my body is. It didn’t stop us from fucking though, we had sex five more times that night before we fell asleep together. I couldn’t stand it though, I needed more of him I woke up and started to ride him again but he flipped me over and started fucking me from behind, spanking me and grabbing my neck, I loved it and I was dripping wet for him. I asked him if he wanted to be the first person to have anal sex with me, but I already knew the answer. I was on my hands and knees begging him to be the first and he was behind me fingering me, he finally tried to fit inside of me and I gasped at the initial feeling, but he pushed deeper inside of me and I began to moan in pleasure. He came immediately, he loved how tight I am.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I orgasmed five times, he orgasmed seven times
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use protection, I took the morning after pill shamefully the next day. Both of us are clean from stis.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The thrill of being with someone so new
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He had two beers earlier that night at the gallery but I was sober.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex a few more times after that but the relationship ended because we didn’t have anything in common other than art and sex.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one friend and was scolded for cheating on my boyfriend.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Very.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not regret this hookup it was thrilling and a great sexual experience for both of us.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was how passionate it was, the worst was that I cheated on my boyfriend.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
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