by Jacrou

Gender: Female
Age: 46
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Co director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 41
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A lot

Night Of Firsts

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partners were a good looking married couple in their 40s,  friends of mine for a couple of years. We met through our kids who are friends.  Nothing had ever happened before. I knew that they had played as a couple in the past but didn’t anymore, she told me that ages ago. I had sometimes wondered about whether something could happen. I find her attractive however I had never had sex with a woman and also they are friends and I wondered if it would be weird.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were all at a party which was great fun. We got drunk. I went to their place with them to continue drinking and we did some lines too. We were all lying on a big couch chatting and drinking. She asked me about my sex life so I told them about my adventures meeting men online. I then told them that I had recently met a couple online who I’m chatting to with a view to having my first experience with a woman and also first threesome. He went to get more drinks and she said: now you’ve told us that he will be keen on something happening now, what do you think? I said yeah that sounds fun, why not?

When he got back I asked her if her breasts were real. I had always wondered. They are amazing but look quite natural. She said they aren’t real and told me a bit about that. Then she pulled the straps of her dress down and exposed them, offering for me to feel. I felt them then just kept fondling and stroking one, while he did the other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was really enjoying touching her breasts and nipples, they felt lovely. Then she kissed me which also felt great. Then she kissed him then he kissed me. Then he and I sucked her nipples. She suggested we go to their bedroom.  She raced ahead and came back with a negligee for me so I went and changed in the spare room then joined them in their room. She was also in a negligee and he was in undies. They invited me into the middle of their bed, between them and we all kissed and touched each other for a while and they sucked my nipples.

Then she and I alternated sucking his cock. He wasn’t very hard and she seemed puzzled by that.  Then she went down on me which was very nice. He wanted to see me go down on her and she said you don’t have to, as she knew I never had before, but I wanted to, I was keen to experience that. I really enjoyed it. She tasted nice and felt nice and I put my finger inside her while I licked and sucked her clit. He put his cock in her mouth and she sucked, he was still not very hard. She asked him what was going on and then asked me to leave them for a few minutes which I did – not sure what went on but they called me back and we all kissed a bit more. Then she left for a bit and while she was away I sucked his cock then he ate me and I came. When she came back he asked me to eat her again and I did and he was hard now. Then he fucked her in missionary for ages and I was just watching, but he couldn’t cum.  He then stood by the bed and wanked, wanting to cum on her but it still wouldn’t happen. I suggested I leave them now as she seemed like it was odd he couldn’t cum so I thought it must be having me there that was the issue.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I did. I think she did. He didn’t (while I was there anyway).

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He didn’t fuck me so no need. Sure they have their own situation worked out, they are married. Oral between us all was unprotected.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction, in particular to her. Always wanted to experience being with a woman and a threesome. Drunk and high and reckless.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes both. Quite a lot.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to the spare room and went to sleep. I woke up quite early and everyone was still asleep. I got up and went home as I felt a bit awkward.  I feel excited it happened and I enjoyed it. Now I’m sober I also feel nervous about how it’s going to be between us now. Hopefully it will be fine.  At this stage I’m expecting it to be a crazy one off thing. I don’t see a lot of them and also I don’t think he was that comfortable with it. I’m excited about things progressing with this other couple I’m talking to. I think it will be a better situation to be planned, prepared and not drunk.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I sent a message to an online friend straight after as we had talked about this scenario at length in the past. He tried to call me when he read the message but I was asleep and missed the call. I then sent a message to a former lover who now lives elsewhere as we had tried (and failed) to set up a threesome for us and I knew he would be very interested. We chatted about it for a while and he was happy for me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it was a cool experience and I now know that I enjoy sex with a woman.  I do feel a little awkward about it though and hope it isn’t going to be weird next time I see them.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing : a new exciting experience – getting to touch and taste a beautiful woman and also the novelty and fun of 3 people together.

Worst : that we were very drunk and they are friends so hope it won’t be weird around them now

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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