by

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Night With Local Celeb

How long ago did this hookup happen? about a year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So I became a single mom when I was young. But I managed to go to college and got a great job that I love. But unlike my friends, I never went to nightclubs too often. So when I got the chance to have a night out with the girls, it was always a big thing for me. I’m a fairly decent looking girl. 5’7″ tall, about 140-145 lbs, 34b, reddish hair. So I was kind of used to attracting attention from guys at the clubs. But I was never really interested, except for one night, a year ago. I live in Canada where hockey is a huge deal. The city I live in has a pro NHL team. I don’t really follow it though. My friends and I were at a club one night. This guy walked in and it seemed like everyone was making a big deal and going up to him. I had no clue who he was, until my friend told me. He was a younger player, only been on the team a few years. He was around 6’4″ and in great shape, light brown hair. He was with 2 friends. I was 27 at the time and he was 24 I believe. He was hot, that’s for sure. Most of the people in the place were going up to him. But not being a fan, I wasn’t all that interested.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A little later on I went to the bar to get a drink and he walked up and started talking to me, and paid for my drink. I was a little surprised by this. He had all these people fawning all over him and he came up to me. So he introduced himself and we started talking, which led to him asking me to dance. I could see my friends look of shock, considering I was the one who didn’t know who he was and really didn’t care. So we danced a bit. I thanked him for the drink and gave him a kiss on the cheek and said I had to get back to my friends. A little later on I was sitting alone and he came over and started talking to me again. When my friends came back he talked to them for a minute or so then left. A few minutes later I decided to go for a smoke, being the only one that was a smoker I was going alone. As I was leaving to go outside, he stopped me and said: “you’re not leaving already?” I said, “no, just going outside for a smoke.” I was kind of surprised that he asked if I wanted company. He wasn’t a smoker either. So we were outside and trying to talk, but people kept on coming up and asking for pictures and stuff like that. He then whispered to me, “I’m trying to get to know you, and it’s so hard with all these interruptions.” I was completely shocked at this point. He was trying to get to know me. So after a few more minutes and a couple more interruptions, he said to me, “this might be a little straightforward, but do you want to get out of here and go somewhere’s quieter and get to know each other.” I accepted immediately. So we left. We didn’t even tell our friends. So I asked him, “where do you want to go?” He said, “we can go to a coffee shop. There’s a quiet little pub I know of that we won’t get interrupted or if you’re feeling really daring, we could go to my place.” I couldn’t believe it, but I said your place, which was unusual for me to just jump at doing something like that with someone I just met. I must of be starstruck. But it brought a smile to his face.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to his place and I couldn’t believe how big and nice this condo was. They paid these young hockey players good. He turned on some music and brought out a bottle of wine and gave me a glass. He sat down next to me and we were talking for a few minutes. I put down my glass of wine and we started kissing, which led to touching and petting. He ended up taking my shirt off. I then said we’d probably be more comfortable in the bedroom. So we moved in there. I took a sip of my wine and put the glass down and I noticed he had already taken his shit off and was in the process of taking his pants off. As soon as I saw the hot body, the fantastic abs, and the hung cut cock, I was really turned on. I’d never been with a guy built like that before. I took my pants off and left my panties and bra on. He came over and we were kissing again. Then he literally picked me up and put me on the bed. He then started to eat me out over my panties. Eventually, he took them off and continued. I eventually had to stop him. I sat up and took my bra off, which wasn’t really on anyways at this point. I started giving him a blowjob. While I was doing this, I was rubbing my hand against his abs. I couldn’t believe how ripped he was. Then I got on top of him and started riding him. It wasn’t long before he flipped me off him and he was on top. Then a little later he flipped me over and started with a doggie. I’ve never had anyone man-handle me like that before. I was loving it. And the stamina he had. He went a while before blowing his load. What surprised me was he was a cuddler afterward. I went to reach for my wine, and he got up to go get the bottle. When he came back in the room, looking at his naked body, I asked him if he wanted to “go another round.” This time we 69ed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I figured I was just another one night stand for him. I knew nothing in the way of a relationship would come of it. But I was surprised when he said he liked me and wanted to see me again. I knew though that it didn’t mean anything other than a sexual relationship. Because he had a girlfriend who didn’t live with him. I was a bit naive I guess. I had been single for a bit and there was a guy who was nice to me and great in bed. So I kept hooking up with him for a few months. But even after we ended things, we’re still friends actually.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One of my friends from the club texted me while he was giving me oral. Knowing it was likely them, I grabbed my phone. She asked what happened to me. I messaged her back, “I’ll tell you later.” She then sent me a text, saying:” Oh my god, you’re fucking him.” So, my friends at that night knew and were jealous of me. I also told my sister who’s a hockey fan.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got laid after almost a year. I was the envy of my friends and sister. I guess I kind of became a hockey fan too. He gave me tickets for me and my kids to see a couple of games.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I felt bad for fooling around with someone else’s boyfriend.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have to admit I was more of the type to want to be in a relationship before having sex with a guy. But after this, I decided to explore a little. I have an FWB thing going with an older, recently divorced dad right now.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Kind of a funny moment the next morning. I woke up and saw the time, knowing I had to get my kids from my parents. As I was getting dressed he asked me what my hurry was. I told him that I had to go pick up my kids. I hadn’t told him I was a mom. So his reaction was, “I never banged a mom before.” We both started laughing and I said, “well if it makes you feel any better, I’ve never banged a hockey player before.”

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool site. Came across from it by accident.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!