What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Australia
What’s your occupation? Finance & Administration Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 Years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? To be honest, I can not remember exactly, I did not know him nor have I seen him before. I know he did have a solid build and had chocolate brown skin.
I did not feel anything before the hookup as he caught me by surprise.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was out with a few girlfriends in a popular nightclub, this particular night it was very busy and we were all pretty drunk. I went to the bar and ordered a couple more tequila shots slammed them back with lemon and salt then hit the dance floor. My girlfriend and I were pretty sexy dancers we always had guys trying to grind up on us.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After having a good dance I needed to go to the ladies room and freshen up, as I made my way to the toilets, this solid dark-skinned guy randomly asked if I wanted to fuck. I thought to have a quick fuck with a total stranger and the possibility of getting caught was a bit of a turn on, so I said yes. He followed me into the toilet he unzipped his pants, bent me over the toilet, pulled up my skirt, pulled my g-strings to the side. and fucked me with his hard cock. He came on my ass after a few minutes and left the toilets. I cleaned myself up to the best I could and went back out to my friends, my pussy was wet and moist. I told my friend I just got fucked in the toilet she called me a dirty bitch jokingly. I wanted to show her who I fucked but couldn’t see him anywhere and never did see him again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I just went back out to my friends on the dance as nothing had happened, I love having random one night stands with strangers.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend was shocked but thought it was funny
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Random sex in public
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome site for anyone to express their sexual experiences
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