Current location: Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: retired; opera critic
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150 + (not counting paid sex)
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
No Masturbation Experience
How long ago did this hookup happen? 52
How would you best classify this hookup? anyone like me?
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? girlfriend
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? at home
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? normal sex
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? yes/no
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? none
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? desire
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? fear of pregnancy
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? none
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? my first ejaculation at 22
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Born in 1940 I grew up in an a-sexual environment. I never even masturbated because I did not know about it. Of course I heard others talking about wanking, but was so naive that I did not know what this was. I suppose my upbringing had taught me not to touch my genitals.
Well, one day it happened with my girlfriend. She was not a virgin, but had little experience. She urged me to to fuck her, and then the first ejaculation/orgasm in my life occurred – in a woman. It was an overhwelming experience, believe me.
Now I wonder, is there another male around who had a similar weird development of his sexual life as I?
Well, luckily the pill was marketed when I was 23, and there was no Aids for twenty years. There were happy sex morals in Germany in the late sixties, seventies and early eighties. Condom-free sex with many partners in all varieties (no SM). Now that I am in my seventies another pill was invented at the right moment, and I am still enjoying sex which I owe to my relatively good health. May it last for a couple of years to come.