by Esmeralda

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Mexico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student and worker at a cinema
Relationship status: 6 months dating him, still not my bf
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I just like cute sexy people, but prefer men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Four years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well, they were my best friend and her boyfriend, and a close friend of him. My friend, who I’ll call E, is pretty cute, tanned skin, short and thin, very goodlooking; she’s my age. Her boyfriend, who I’ll call O, is much older than us and has light hair, fair skin, he’s not much of a hottie but his sexual energy is very contagious. His friend, who I’ll call H, was tall and slim, dark skin and he had an interesting face.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As long as I know, there was no planning involved. We were at O’s apartment; he was throwing a party and his friend H came to visit him from D. F. I think that E instigated it, because when the party was over and only us four were left, she started making out with H, and that’s when O proposed to join them. Of course this happened after a lot of beer and some pot. It was also the first time I smoked weed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started with E and H making out, then O and I did the same. At some point, the males dared E and I to kiss each other, and we accepted only if they did the same afterwards. So we kissed, and I have to say that was something I had wanted for a long time ago. After that, O and H kissed each other; I had never seen two men kissing each other in front of me, well, in that particular context of casual sex. It was really arousing. So, we went to action and after touching and playing as a group, we chose a partner and I fucked with O, while E fucked with H. There was vaginal and oral sex for everybody, and after a while we switched couples. Me and E never came, H came (or pretended to come) like 3 times, and O had one intense orgasm in me. At the end of the session, though, only E, O and me were fucking because H started to behave like a pornstar and it was no longer exciting. It was a shame, because he had the larger penis, but O had the moves. The encounter ended with O asking me if everything was ok, if I felt abused or humilliated in any way. He told me that he didn’t want me to accuse him or get him in any legal trouble. I just told him that no one forced me to do nothing and that I was ok. And I was 🙂

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Geez, that’s one of the two times I didn’t use condoms. H did, but only one, he never changed it for a new one. But O didn’t have any condoms and we agreed to buy the next day pill. That’s what I used.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Mainly because I desired my friend so much, and I had passed some time planning how to get to fuck her. I didn’t expect to do it that night, though. Also because I wanted to have a crazy experience like a threesome. And I got to do a foursome, so it was great.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yeah, some weed and lots of beer. I really can’t recall how many bottles, but we were for sure drunk, though not that much.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We slept. Haha, seriously, H had a football game the next morning, so he left early. E, O and I had breakfast. We never talked about repeating the experience, and I didn’t plan to do it. Though, we had sex more times and that brought some confusion and problems, especially when I got a bf. Still now, that I’m trying to get in a serious relationship with a brilliant guy, they try to repeat the sex. And I enojoyed it, but I like to see my friends and have a nice time with them without the pressure of having sex. It became a quite problematic situation, but at least it was a great night.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Well, I didn’t talked about it until half a year later, and it was to another friend of us. She didn’t believe me at first, but after seeing them in action -and that’s another story- she did. After that, I have told the story to the new friends I’ve gotten. I like to tell that particular story.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? At first I didn’t want to, because of the H guy. I didn’t know him, I just wanted to fuck my friend. But they all looked so excited and sexy that I couldn’t resist. So yes, it was consesual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I just regret it because of the present problems that my friends are creating. They want to do it again, and they are capable of setting a complete scenary to make me propose a foursome or accept it: alcohol, dancing, sexy conversations. But right now, I don’t want to do it again and we have talked about it. They seem to understand, but when we’re together, with my partner, having a drink, they always end up talking about it. That’s the consequence I regret, but not the fact that I fucked three people in the same night.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the variety: one pussy and two cocks. It was like Christmas. The worst thing, as I said before, the insistence of my friends on repeating. And of course it changed the way I think about sex and feelings. And relationships. I was single buy the time, but they all had couples. I forgot to mention that H was about to get married. So it made think that you can really separate sex from feelings. They all loved their partners, but they didn’t have a problem with having sex with other people. That’s what I thought at the moment, but my ideas have changed a lot since then.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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