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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South AfriCape Town
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? At high school
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I am sure I like guys
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

No Strings Attached

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He had blue eyes and blonde hair. I loved them as friends

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began at school, we were best friends and both of us was sexually frustrated. So we decided to become fuck buddies

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, I came 5 times, all because of being finger fucked and tongued. He was really good at it and we promised not to talk about it once it ended.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? No expectations. We are still super best friends

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature), Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? I don’t know

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my girl best friend. We stopped being friends because she had feelings for him

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? It was weird having sex with my best friend who always listens to my problems

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both came more positive about ourselves and learnt a lot about the opposite sex’s pleasures

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My best friends and I didn’t have the same relationship as before

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think I am absolutely sexy and can confidently say that I could make a guy come like a bullet…multiple times

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was scary

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its awesome

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