by Patricia

Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: Latina
Location: Venezuela
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Evangelic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Not Expected At All

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 3 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)?: Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s half lebanese. Not that tall but strong enough, baby face and black haired. He smells good… very good. He was totally out of my league, considering he’s hot and rich. I met him at my office and I didn’t feel anything about him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I used to work in an agency and he was one of our clients. After some change in his website (which I managed) he arrived to the office and I noticed he couldn’t stop staring at me, he made some comments to my coworkers but I acted like nothing happened. Then after a while he got my number and started calling me for weeks, he was very clear about things though.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We performed oral on each other, penetration and all that kind of stuff. He was very sweet though, he never treated me badly or anything.  We didn’t talk much because it was quick, but the few things he said was how nice my lips were and he was willing to kiss them, so he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? To forget about my friend with benefits who I still am in love with and grow my self confidence I guess. I mean… a hot rich guy wanted to bang me.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Never.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt nice. I don’t hope anything from him but keep having great sex. I don’t feel anything for him luckily.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? About a couple friends… ok one of them was my ex “friend with benefits” (now we are just friends I guess) and he didn’t take it well, actually he called me out because I was too “valuable for him and he wanted me to have sex with people who were worth it.” 
Then another friend who was actually happy for me and encouraged me to keep doing so. We were using each other anyways.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual but initiated by him.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nothing to complain. Maybe better oral sex from him but it’s not that bad.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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