by Lisa

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Nothing has changed

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It’s Drake. I have met him in Spain 4 years ago and we got along really well. Unfortunately, we never got to see each other afterwards. I honestly did not believe I would see him again. But then I decided to go on a trip to his country. I was waiting for him at the train station to pick me up. He was late. But then suddenly I saw him. Hotter then he used to be, way hotter. I could not wait to take his clothes off.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was Saturday night when we got to his place. What are we going to do? He set up quite the schedule for tonight and of course, it involved beer! In between events we went with his group of friends to his place for pre-drinks. We wanted to go to another party. I already had quite a bit to drink, and I was looking for him. Catch him at the right moment. We exchanged words I can’t recall at this moment and suddenly started to make out. Make out like you can only expect two people can that are very attracted to and hadn’t seen each other in too long! (It was hot!)

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into the small spare room, everyone else was in the other rooms. We couldn’t get our clothes off fast enough. We made out, he touched me, and I sucked him as good as I can, taking in all his demands. He gave me one of the best compliments I could ask for in bed: “This is the best blow job I have ever had!” Unfortunately, we were naked and too drunk to put our clothes back on properly to get condoms from the other room. So we kept going. 69, fingering, blow jobs. I can’t recall everything that was said but he really wanted to have sex with me, I wanted him to fuck me so badly. Eventually, everybody was gone. We went into his room and started fucking- finally!! After a round of me on top we changed into doggy (one of my favorites). He came onto my back and we passed out soon after. At some point during the night he woke me up, making me touch his raging boner. “This is you. You are still making me so horny.”

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really good about it. In the morning we did a bit of oral sex, ending with him cuming in my mouth. During the whole day I kept having flash backs, making me want more that night. Drake lives in another country, and is at a point of his life where he can’t promise commitment. A relationship is out of the question, especially since the foundation for a long-distance relationship (more than a few months in the same place) isn’t there.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t talked to anybody about it.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with this amazing person that I have missed so much over the years and that he still feels the way about me as he did 4 years ago.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being a bit too drunk, not being able to recall everything.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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