by Sara

Gender: Female
Age: 20
Current location: Newcastle
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Nothing To Even Tell

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We know each other from university, I know him averagely well. Always had a crush.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We bumped into each other on a night out and he made the least romantic proposal of sex I am ashamed to have accepted.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral and vaginal sex. None of it good. I just felt nothing.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I think he did…?

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I don’t even know. I like to feel wanted.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A lot of alcohol

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt ok, better than I have after previous one-night stands. I don’t think about him. The only thing that makes it exciting at all is that I’m not allowed to tell anyone.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? But I have told someone…and they were jealous. Obviously did not share details.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? My life would be no better or worse if it hadn’t happened. But he has just come out of a long term relationship and no one really enjoys being a rebound do they.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: I’ve fancied him for a long time, it was an opportunity not to miss
Worst: Disappointing disappointing sex
I have constantly changing feeling towards casual sex. I have my fair share of it and I often wonder why I do it and is it worth it considering the amount of time I spend feeling so hurt and worthless.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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