by Haleigh

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Including oral, 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Number 64

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was slightly taller than I am, beautiful eyes and short curly blonde hair on the top of his head. I had just gone through a rough break-up so I had come down to the beach to party all weekend with a friend. We were going downtown to meet her friend at this bar and have some drinks before we went out clubbing. We walked in and I automatically see these two guys & I think to myself, the one on the left is my goal for the night. Y’all, I couldn’t make this shit up… My friend walks over to the two guys, and the one on the right is her friend that we were supposed to be meeting.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So we are introduced, we have some drinks and move on to a club. He’s somewhere between 27-29 (older guys are my weakness) and he’s a high-school teacher (um, yes please). Here we are, sweating our asses off on the dance floor, and he’s asking me how it is that I’m so beautiful… We’re dancing and kissing and drinking and having a fantastic time, so when the clubs all closed the four of us caught a cab back to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We’re all downstairs and my girl friend and her friend go outside for a smoke, leaving me and my guy alone in the living room. He pushes me back on to the couch, kissing me and pulling at my shirt. Our friends are outside and they aren’t on the same level as us, so I tell my guy we should take it upstairs. So we’re in his bed, making conversation between making out and fooling around. And I ask him how many girls he has slept with. His reply is 63, no hesitation at all. As my number is pretty low, his shocked me and I automatically let him know we aren’t going to have sex. He says “I know” and we keep making out. I think at this point he had already given me a t-shirt of his to put on since I was going to be crashing there that night. So that’s all I’m wearing. And he had on only his boxers. And he was beautiful and loving me so I gave in and we had sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom and I’m on birth control.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Didn’t have any reasons not to! We were both single and wanting each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Quite a few mixed drinks/shots

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I think what happened after we had sex was actually what I love the most. We’re all hot and sweaty and there’s a glass of water on the nightstand so I grab it and am taking a sip. He says he wants some too so I go to hand him the glass, but he says he wants it from my mouth instead. So I take another sip and lean over him and let the water trickle out of my mouth into his. And then he demands that I lay on my stomach and he proceeds to give me the best massage I’ve ever had in my entire life. (He had promised me one earlier on in the night). And that’s it. We fell asleep and I left in the morning. And it was beautiful.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friend I was staying with as well as my best friend from home. They were surprised/slightly disgusted by his number, haha, but overall didn’t really care and thought it was funny.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both of us

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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