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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Nut And Bolt Party Leads To Creampie

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 21, white, blonde, perhaps 5’2, 140 pounds. She had big tits and a bubbly personality. I liked her and liked that she was quite young.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, it was at a nut and bolt party my friend hosted. Apparently, it’s difficult to get women to come to these, so the stipulation for a guy to participate is that he has to bring a willing girl and he pays $20 for food and beverages.

I drew a bolt that was compatible with Carissa’s. We chatted for a bit, talking about sexual history and she told me that she just wanted to have fun with her sexuality and for me to feel free to do as I please, but no anal.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, people were watching Carissa and I and told her to go down on me. She didn’t give great head, but she got me hard. The voyeurs seemed to enjoy themselves and requested that we do doggie style. I asked Carissa if I needed a condom and she said it was my choice, so I didn’t bother. She had a nice wet pussy and I must admit I loved it. I slapped her ass a few times then we changed positions. I then fucked her in missionary when some of the people cheered us on and wanted me to cum inside her so I did. We kissed. I got off her and she turned toward the other party-goers with her legs spread to show off the creampie. A few people cheered which turned me on.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well, we cuddled and watched some other people have sex. We traded numbers and have another date set up.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I came inside a girl not on any form of birth control, but she said she just finished ovulating.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I came inside a girl and there is a slight thrill of the possibility she is pregnant. Also, I liked having people cheer me on during sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want to go to another nut and bolt party. It was fun.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I kind of hope she gets pregnant, she seemed sweet and I could see a future with her and lots of fun sex.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It leads to more. Why go through 3-5 dates to find out you aren’t sexually compatible.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!