What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Madrid
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Engaged / Addicted to love
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He has bold, blue eyes and a well-fitted body. He is tall with a nice smile and is handsome like a personal trainer.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Hans is one of the supervisors in the company. I was hired three years ago as a newcomer and the first time we met, we only shooked hands. I had already fallen for him hard, and he could tell. He laughed at me as he explained he had two children. My world fell apart, as it took three minutes, but felt like it lasted a lifetime. I felt that he couldn’t possibly be married. How old is he? Only 41? Or at least that was my impression. I felt like I was burning inside. Eventually, I forgot this feeling and soon became friends and even best colleagues with Hans. I only wanted to make him happy and proud. I worked as hard as I could and helped him with daily duties all the time.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During one of my first business trips, I traveled to Stockholm. Hans and I were sending messages back and forth and somehow the discussion became kinkier as we kept talking. He asked me to send him any photos, and I became giddy while I was trying to figure it out. He was still in office, while I went back to the hotel room. My pussy was burning with desire and all I wanted was to please him. I sent him a picture without underwear, only with a short skirt on since my legs are my strongest point. Another one for his eyes only as it was without a bra. He replied on away, which had no return. He desired me and I thought of him naked. The deal was that he could show me via his photo.
One week later, he was out traveling with his children on a leisure trip. While they were sleeping, he kept his promise. It was the first photo I got and the first time I got to see his naked body and such a desireable cock. He was beautiful and I wondered could I ever feel that cock inside me? Two weeks later, I booked a room near the office. Two milfs were with me in the pool house. I invited him over. He came with his car and we went a short ride on a hill. Like a teenager, I kissed him and his penis. He was tough-looking and very fit. It was like he was designed for me. He was more than I expected.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We tried to work again like colleagues, or as a learner and supervisor. When I touch him, electricity comes over my body and I feel alive.
After a couple of months, I got married to another man. I know this somehow ruined his expectations of our feelings. I knew that we would never have a chance to be a normal couple though I fell in love with him, touching him each day and trying not to express it all. I love my husband. Another chance came, when I invited him to my place for coffee during the morning. He was damned hot, with his jeans, t-shirt, and his moto jacket. We were lying in bed before work. He came the moment he was inside of me. I know that this somehow should be embarrassing for him, I only think of it as one of the most precious moments when you desire so badly something that you cannot handle it. We didn’t try anything again.
I miss you xxx
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I tried to overcome my feelings, as he changed his mind and tried to be more focused on his family. I never thought of regretting it as I am feeling it was not wrong. I met one of his friends, who tried to seduce me. As a result, my relationship with Hans became more toxic. He regretted as he thought it was a wrong move on his part. I also tried to explain to him, I could never hook up with his friend. After this, the balance was lost. Now we are behaving as if this hookup never happened.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice
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