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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? indian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Chennai
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Business Development Executive
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8 to 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was chubby, short, and husky. We met on the first-day office group discussion and the HR was giving a brief about the history and policies.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She asked me not to go for smoke breaks. She told me that she quit smoking and would be tempted if I went for a smoke break. Later sexting started and we didn’t decide to have sex but we went for lunch and movie together. After the movie, I asked her if we can go to my place and then head back to the office. The moment we reached home we kissed each other and started removing our clothes. I am very into chubby girls – her body, her ass made me so horny. We started fucking immediately, there were no slow moves, everything was fast and hard. When we finished we were lying in the bed like dead bodies

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was very casual and every day after work, we would head home, fuck, and then I dropped her back at the bus stop. It became a routine that I never got bored of.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?  it ended because she had to go away to take care of a personal family matter. I felt empty after she left I was not interested to do anything for a few days and eventually, I moved on.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my girl bestie about it. she was excited for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We were very open about discussing things and tried every position possible.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Since all of this would usually happen after work when it was between 3 to 5 in the morning, we were pretty tired but we never stopped having sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I’ve never met a girl who was so open about sex and she made me feel amazing. It’s like singing in the bathroom – we do whatever we want because no one is paying attention. It’s probably second best sex I’ve ever had.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Sex is a big part of life and if you find the right partner, you should take the chance to explore what you like. Make sure to respect your partner.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s best when someone can accept you naked and open in bed, with nothing to hide and always more to explore.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? it is awesome. This is the first time I’ve seen this website. I went through so many  stories and I was so eager to write my own story.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!