What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Oh! Mon dieu!
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a petite French girl with brown hair and brown eyes. We hit it off on Tinder at about 6 pm, went out to a bar at about 9 pm, and back to my place at 11 pm. Since she was traveling, I decided to approach our date with a nothing-to-lose mentality and just see what happens.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went out to a bar that had a beautiful view of the city. Then, we had a couple of drinks and shared a cigarette. We got along very well and were having a great conversation when I asked her if she had ever kissed someone from South America, she said no. I told her that we needed to change that. She agreed. There was great chemistry between us and after another drink, I asked her if she wanted to head back to my place. She nodded in agreement.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There was a lot of foreplay and we were all over each other while undressing. I started by going down on her, I took my time on her lightly trimmed pussy. She got very wet and tasted great. I inserted one and then two fingers as I was lightly sucked on her clit. She started arching her body and pushing my head on her pussy with both hands. After a while, I went up and we made out some more while she stroked my penis. She gave a great blow job while also playing with my balls. She then told she wanted me inside, so I threw on a condom and penetrated her very slowly at first and then increased the pace until I was pounding on her pretty hard. She started moaning in French: Oh, mon dieu!, Oh, mon dieu! which I found extremely hot and sexy. I had always fantasised about being with a French girl and this just fulfilled that dream! After a while, we took a break and had small talk. We were both still horny, so I flipped her on her stomach and penetrated her from behind. I was going pretty hard at it and with my thumb started rubbing her anus, she went wild and guided me to push my thumb inside. Neither of us came and stopped having sex after a long while when we felt spent.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She spent the night and cuddled for a bit. In the morning I took her back to her hotel.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends. They were amused.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being able to fulfil a fantasy. My partner was very openminded and chilled.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was great all around. Just sex.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!
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