What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 62
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? small business owner
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I have only had a couple. Wife has had 2-3 each year over the past 40+ years of marriage
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Stacey’s partner was in his early 50s, 6 feet tall, and athletically built. She (we) met him on a dating site. We chatted a lot over a month long period and they shared a few photographs. Nothing revealing at first but eventually a full face photo and a couple of X-rated. They talked on the phone a few times and hit it off. There was chemistry and Stacey was giddy whenever they spoke. I thought he was a good guy – safe and respectful. He’d never done this before but was eager to meet us.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Stacey met Robert on a dating site. He lives about one hour from us and we all agreed to meet at the marina bar during a weekend, mini-vacation. He made a dinner reservation at the marina restaurant and I made a hotel reservation a block away. We drove down on Friday afternoon for an evening meet-up.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Stacey spent an inordinate amount of time preparing before we left our house. She groomed her lady parts and had me buy her a new panty-bra set the day before. When we got to the hotel late that afternoon, she showered and had me help her dress. She wore a light knee length dress with the new panties and bra. She carried a sweater in case it was cool at the water. We met for dinner and drinks. They hit it off immediately and flirted, lightly touched, laughed, and whispered in my presence. Though I was part of the event, I really wasn’t. They decided to walk along the docks to look at the boats. I went to the bar and watched them as they strolled. He put his arm around her to keep her warm as they walked and she nuzzled up to him. Not too far down the dock, they embraced. She pressed herself against him and he pulled her towards him in a long hot kiss. His hands roamed over her back and ass. They continued their walk for another 15-30 minutes and came back to meet me at the bar. There was plenty of sexual energy in the air. As planned, they decided to go to our hotel room. Stacey reassured me that all was good and that they’d be back in a couple of hours. As I kissed her goodbye, she pressed her wet panties in my hand (I had asked her, the day prior, to give me her panties if they were going to the hotel). I fondled her panties in my jacket pocket for what seemed like an eternity. They returned to the marina bar after about 3 hours. She looked very satisfied as they walked up arm in arm. He bought a round of drinks and we made small talk as they continued their romance in my presence. There were a couple of couples and guys at the bar who – it was obvious – suspected that they were lovers and that I was the husband. I found that erotic and exciting.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Stacey and Robert met the next day in the late morning. I hung out at the hotel lobby while they enjoyed one another again. We drove home later that day and she gave me all the details of the weekend. I always enjoy the detailed explanation from her afterward. I was rock hard and asked her to fuck when we got home. She denied me – which isn’t unusual as she knows it’s part of our ritual and she wants me to anguish a day or two.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Her partner of course. We talked with him several weeks before the meeting. He was very enthusiastic.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Witnessing my wife plan the sex date over a period of weeks and then sending me out to buy her new panties and bra.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst really isn’t a worst but it’s the time I spent waiting for them to return to the marina bar. It was three hours after they left arm in arm and it seemed like a long time. Stacey texted me a couple of times during the period but still, it felt like a long time. Having said that – it was a huge turn on as I fantasized about their activities while I played with her wet panties in my pocket.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. It’s part of the lifestyle we’ve enjoyed for the past 40+ years.
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I suspect there are more couples engaged in this lifestyle than we can imagine.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great forum to share.
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