What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? Twenty seven
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Bank accounts
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Thirty seven
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Older guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Five years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was good looking, quite fit, only spoke a few times before in the pub, never thought about him before that evening.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In my local pub, he approached me asked to join me and brought me a drink.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his house after the pub closed. We’d had a few drinks and talked sexy stuff before he asked me to have sex with him. We went to chaise lounge in his lounge he gave me oral until I orgasmed. After, we went to his bedroom where he placed me in a spreader bar and fucked me for twenty minutes before he came inside my pussy.

A while later, he wanted more, but this time he climbed on top and again he came inside my pussy. We slept for a bit but I was woken to find him lubing my anal hole!!! It was my first time having anal sex and I loved it! I orgasmed as he came in my ass.

We had a few more drinks and talked, and he said he was still horny and he wanted me again!! This time as I sat on the edge of the kitchen unit he kissed me. I felt the tip of his penis on my lips as we kissed more, and I felt him slide deep again in my wet pussy. Lifting my legs, I rode him really fast until he came for the forth time!! That was that as daylight approached and I had to go as his wife was due to return from her business trip abroad. I had never had so much sex in one session and loved every moment as did he.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met once more after in our local park and had outdoor sex amongst the leaves. It was amazing and a great turn on. I had no expectations ever nor he. It was just sex but bloody great sex at that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The only person I’ve ever told is my new partner who’s fifty two, turns out I like the older guy, he was so turned on by it we made love lots that night

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He taught me how sex can be exciting and fun not just crash and bash like I was used to

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all apart from leaving still wanting more !!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes definitely it made me appreciate myself and not to let idiots just have me for a quick shag

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He must have loved it as much as me because many a time after he asked me to his house again, but I had been there done it and it would of been because he wanted it when his wife was away

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve had thirty plus one night stands in my life mostly with young guys that just wanted a quick shag to get rid of there tension!!! That’s why I prefer the older more mature man now

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