What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Caretaker
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Only women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80 I think
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 16 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was attending a small college in Texas at the time. My roommate and I were in walmart. He actually approached her. I’m not sure what the convo was but she gave him her number and told him for me to call her. At the time she had long black hair.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I called her the next day. She told me she was married but her husband beats her. She also cut her hair because she got mad at her husband. She told me she wanted to meet up as soon as possible. 20 minutes later a car pulls up to the dorm to pick me and we went to her place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  Right away she sits her 3 year old son on the living room couch. We go in the room and close the door. I take out my dick so she starts suckling and licking. While this is happening her son is cryin trying to bust through the bedroom door. So she leaves the room to calm him down. I’m laying in the bed with my dick hard as a rock praying her husband doesn’t get home early from work. She comes back in the room. I lie her down on her back to penetrate her pussy. As I slide in and start pumping at that exact moment she gets her period. This is the first time that has happened to me. I thought I ripped something because she was a small woman. She panicked and said yes it’s because your really big. She gets a wet rag to clean my dick. She starts sucking on it. I’m telling her to spit on it. I just was fucking her mouth. I told her to suck my balls as I jerked off to cum on her face.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She drove me back to the dorm. I didn’t expect anything. We bumped into each other at Walmart a month later but it wasn’t awkward or anything. I just hope as I write this she is OK and got out of that abusive marriage

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommate at the time

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? There wasn’t any emotional ties.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her child wouldn’t stop crying in the other room.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope not at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I honestly have met some good friends and had great experiences with women I’ve had casual sex with. I’ve actually been more honest and trusting in my casual relationship’s than in my monogamous ones. People being more honest about not trying to make an exclusive relationship out of a casual one.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s an judgment free outlet to tell your sexual experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!