What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? ATLANTA, Georgia
What’s your occupation?
What’s your current relationship status? Sexless marriage for over 5 yrs.
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sexually curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
OMG! Did I Really Answer an Ad on Craigslist?
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jay had an ad on CL. What possessed me to answer his hookup ad IDK. We emailed back n forth, he wanted to get together right then. But I had other obligations. So he said ” When you are ready for the fucking of your life, let me know. ”
So that was Monday night. On Tuesday, he messaged me on Kik asked what about tonight. I said if I can get out, YES. Then my anxiety kicked in and I was freaking out a little. He texted me directions as I was driving to meet him. Finally, he told me he was parked in his camper with his big white truck pulling it in a business park at 1 am.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So he met me at the camper door. Knew I was nervous but made me feel right at ease.
We chatted about things for a few minutes. Then he said what do you want to happen? I said whatever. So we got into the loft queen bed and started kissing. Omg, can he kiss!!! I was so wet from just his kisses then hands started roaming all over my body and he said these clothes need to go.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He then kissed me and played with my 38DDs then said, “I want to fuck now is that ok?” He did as promised. I got the fucking of my life last night. I came so hard!! He did too.
He said well can we do this again or is it just one time? I said I’m down to meet anytime. He said he was so glad cause even though I am almost 20 yrs older than him, he said sex was hot and my pussy was tight and wet. He wants more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Awesome
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one it happened 6 hours ago.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex was fantastic
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I love it even more with every new encounter.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He is so fucking sexy it made me feel good to know he was turned on by me.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome
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