by Helen

Gender: Female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Bucharest, RO
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Musician
Relationship status: Complicated
Religious affiliation: Orthodox
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None.

On Air Tension

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a tall man, white hipster haircut, well proportioned, really talkative, open minded and casual, his age 38.
I met him when i played with my band at the radio at his show. He actually didn.t caught my attention in a sexual way because i was focused on the songs i was willing to play live.
So actually i wasn.t interested in that man.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So he somehow was atracted to me in the moment we started the soundcheck, he noticed my deep clevage, i had skinny black jeans and a white t-shirt that was showing way to much of my breasts, and he started to pay attention on what I was doing in the set.
After the radio show, i got home and i got a phone call from him. He searched my number or something because i didn.t give it personally. So he called, i was stunned, he spoke what he felt about me and we planned the first “date” because we wanted to know each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got at the radio, we drank some coffee in the cafeteria, we were all alone in the whole building. Then he got his hands on my waist and then he kissed me passionately, real intense. It was a great kissing session we both enjoyed. Things got really hot and we went in his office, we got our clothes off, and we started the night with making oral sex. He played me so hard that i was really wet. I gave him a great pleasure session that he was moaning all the time. He put me on the desk and we had sex till the end of his schedule.
He is a great lover for that matter, the meeting ebded really well.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had orgasm.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use any protection, he came outside my vagina. We talked about the health and protection situation. Clearly his interest wasn.t to hurt me in any phisical way.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Every sex meeting is exciting, it makes you feel alive, you do stuff in places you regularly aren.t proper for those things.
Reason for this hookup is that i felt the same sexual tension.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank only
coffee. No drugs or alcohol involved.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup i felt fresh and satisfied, we got our clothes back on, left the building, he drove me back home.
We had casual sex one year, i knew he had a relationship another woman, i really didn.t cared so much because we felt that tension all the time. We just wanted some relaxation away from the daily people we socialize.
After one year…both closed this deal and now we are separate, we don.t interact anymore.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told this story two of my friends.. The reaction was one of shock :)) because they don.t do such things.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was a consensual experience for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret any of my hookups because once in a while i still do those dates but with other men.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the best thing about hookups is that you do what u fantesize, and you will be able to learn what your body needs.
The worst is when you meet people that aren’t feeling the same vibe and the night can be awful.
I am a verry open minded person, those experiences made me learb more about people we interract, body language, and socialising skills.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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