Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A Few
On The Rebound
How long ago did this hookup happen? Three Months
How would you best classify this hookup? Rebound Sex/Short Fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I knew Anya from the University I was working at. She is a 27 year old graduate student, a tall, striking Indian woman with brown skin and raven black hair. I had first met her a few months before, shortly after my transfer. She was working for the same researcher I was working with for a study, a titan in my field. We had spoke in passing and talked a bit before this. I thought she was very intelligent and could be a top student, far better than me or my idol. Anya is the kind of student you are lucky to see once in your career.
Anya was from India originally but from the way she talked and acted and dressed I could tell despite coming from a strict Hindu background she was very Americanized after nearly a decade here.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Anya and I had been working together for a week quite heavily putting our research together for a grant proposal. She had brushed up against me a few times and touched my shoulder a few times when we talked over the course of the week. She had also given me a massage earlier in the day. I was still dealing with the end of a very serious relationship (see The Cop) that had fizzled out more than blown up like my other relationships so I missed the signs of a woman coming onto me. Not that I am against casual sex or don’t enjoy sex, I do very much and have had more than a few one night stands and flings. However I have always been more the relationship type, which means a lot of sex still just with the same woman.
But I digress a bit, Anya and I were working late in my office. As usual when working I was focused more on that and oblivious to the world around me. I heard the door to my office being locked and Anya turned and had her blouse completely open.
“Nick I guess I am going to have to be very direct here. I want you inside me.” I could see her cleavage and belly button, the pink bra that actually worked on her very well, and even a little bit of her underwear over the top of the skirt she was wearing. Anya confessed to a major crush on me and admitted to a serious intellectual attraction.
As a rule I avoid the students, I have seen such affairs end the careers of several colleagues and most colleges have a policy against teacher/student relationships. However Anya wasn’t exactly my student and I was feeling some very serious lust by this point.
Anya walked over to where I was sitting, moved a table out of the way, and began to kiss me. I put my hands on her head and then lowered them down her back as she began to unbutton my shirt and stopped me when I began to grab her ass. “Not yet” She said.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I have had women be the aggressor with me before, my type is more towards the strong willed intellectual like Anya. We were making out heavily now and I finished removing her blouse and undid her bra strap and dropped it to the floor. Personally I prefer my women a little curvier than Anya but she was gorgeous and her breasts were just the right size to fill a hand out.
I felt her breasts up a bit and then licked and sucked them while sitting in my chair. I asked if she wanted to go back to my apartment, it was only a few blocks from here I told her and there were condoms there. She got a few out of her purse which I thought was weird. I then pulled her skirt and panties down, she was shaved down there. She then undid my fly and pulled my pants down.
She used her mouth to put the condom on and then stroked my cock a bit. She then mounted me and put my hands to her hips for support and started to go up and down. Anya kept screaming “Oh yeah fuck me” which I thought was little weird as well. She was also quite loud and vocal relatively quickly and I was glad no one was around.
I actually came fast, quick enough I was embarrassed and I could tell Anya was a little disappointed even though she said it was ok. I asked if there was anything I could do for her, and she said she had never had a man go down on her before. I obliged and we switched with her sitting in my chair now and I ate her for about half an hour, and she orgasmed twice. She was a good lover, nothing great, but enough to where I enjoyed myself. After we were done Anya dressed quickly and I asked if she wanted to go to my place for the night and she said no and left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Anya had those condoms in her purse, I still think that was weird.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was lonely and there was a lot of lust involved.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not that I am aware of.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Anya and I had a short fling that lasted about three weeks, she came to my place every night and we would fuck a few times but she was always gone in the morning when I got up. She gave me a blowjob shortly before a presentation to help me relax once. We could both tell it was not going anywhere and Anya and I decided it was a good idea to end things before we got in trouble.
Things between us were very awkward for a few weeks but we didn’t see each other much. However we have worked together again and are friends now, maybe even a bit closer than we were before. I will admit to an intense intellectual connection with Anya and I am glad we got the sex out of our systems.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, Anya and I have reputations to protect.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? For both of us very much.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? A little, it was a bit awkward after the fling ended.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex, and being able to cross Indian girl off my bucket list something that had been on there for about ten years. The worst was the awkwardness after but it wasn’t that bad. I call this a rebound fling as it finally got me back out there after my breakup and I am considering dating again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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