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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US/Dallas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Program
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Once Upon A Time in STL

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was curvy and biracial (B/W)

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was working at a gas station and she came in to buy cigarettes. She wasn’t very patient and she kept yelling that she didn’t have time to wait in line. We had a big argument that left a terrible impression on both of us. She came back the next week to apologize and we started talking. I am generally too shy to ask about sex, so I was very excited when she asked me if I had a girlfriend. I was so desperate and didn’t want to lose my opportunity so told her that I had never had a girlfriend which she seemed to surprise her. She asked me how it felt to be without a girl when you’re 23 and I told her it had been so dull to jerk off to porn and hot girls that visited the store and that maybe she would be the one who would be the queen of my fantasy that night. She left and I gave her my number which she promised to call. She kept her promise and we were talking pretty casually when I asked her to teach me about sex to prepare me for a relationship. I asked her if we could hook up and she said not that night but, after ten minutes I got a text message from her saying “I’m feeling Kinky, get a Remy Martin and let’s hook up.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After I got her text, I went to the store to buy a Remy Martin and some condoms. I went to her apartment and the street was so dark that I couldn’t stop looking around to make sure no one jumped out at me. She let me into her apartment and closed the door. She was alone and we had two glasses of Remy Martin before she started looking into my eyes and I didn’t move my head even the slightest bit. She slowly moved towards me, and I turned her down on the couch and bit her lower lip to let her taste the Cognac on mine, we kissed for a little bit with one hand on her breast and the other in her panties. She suggested that we “make the night more beautiful” and directed me towards her bedroom which was very nicely decorated. She threw me onto the bed and disappeared into the bathroom. I turned off the lights, lit two candles, and plugged my phone into the speaker to play “Salted Wound” by Sia to set the mood. I heard a noise behind me, and I turned around to see her posing in the door frame. Her naked tits were glowing like two stars, and her curvy shape framed her cunt like an unopened tulip. She walked over and undressed me. She asked me if I wanted a blowjob and I was out of control, but after a few seconds, I felt gross because I had never done that before and was worried that I had disappointed her. I started to rub her clit to take the edge off of things for a while. Then, I threw her on the bed and slowly kissed her feet all the way up to her forehead. She turned around so that I could fuck her from behind. I fucked her for a minute before grabbing her hair and spanking her. I can still remember her screaming which made me more energetic as I pounded her. She asked me to put my dick between her tits and fuck her. I took her over to her table and she threw everything onto the floor so that she could sit and I just kept pounding her. Then, I held her and went into the bathroom where she sat on of the sink while I fucked. I told her that I was going to finish soon and she took my dick to put it in her mouth. It didn’t take long before I finished in her mouth. After that, we fucked twice in the kitchen and bathroom. She asked me if I was really a rookie, and I smiled and said that my first experience was sure going to be the best. After that, we showered together and I went home at around 3 AM.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were both tired and relaxed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was my first experience

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My first orgasm was fairly quick

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that casual sex is a good thing and helps people to see it with a better perspective.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good

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