What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30 to 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
One After Another
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was in a sex club and the sex was anonymous. I never saw the men’s faces. I went to the sex club with my ex. We talked about my fantasy of having a gangbang, but it was very challenging trying to arrange one. So we decided to check out a sex club.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We picked this famous sex club in the city. It was a well known sex club that is legal and open to public. We read the reviews on the internet before deciding on this one.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My ex and I went into the club. Initially, it was quite intimating because the guy to gal ratio was about 10 to 1. I wore a one-piece, body-fitting black dress that showed off most of my legs and my cleavage…without any underwear. As we walked around, I stared to enjoy the direct & lustful stares from the guys. All the attention was making me feel really good, and increasingly hornier. Once in a while, when we walked through crowded hallways or rooms, some guys tried to cop a feel of my ass and legs.
After about 30 minutes of walking around and attracting almost every guy’s attention, and also watching some live sex in different rooms, my pussy was so wet that I could feel some juice was dripping onto my thighs. We came to a room with a couch. My ex sat on the couch and asked me to straddle him. We french kissed in that position for a few minutes, and a group of guys gathered around the couch just watching us make out.
I never really looked around, but my ex softly described to me what was happening around us as we continued to kiss. My ex asked me if it was alright to pull up my tight dress to show off my ass & pussy to the guys around us. I said yes. He pulled up my dress to my waist and that got me really really turned on, and very nervous at the same time. I kissed him passionately as he reached between my legs to finger my pussy, all in the plain sight of guys standing around us. By the time, my ex told me that at least 10 guys had pulled out their cocks and slowly started stroking as they watched my fully exposed ass & pussy.
Then, one guy leaned in and asked if it was OK to touch me. I didn’t say anything because I was kissing my ex. I think my ex made an “OK” hand gesture to the guy, and I immediately felt his hand running down my back and quickly glided onto my wet pussy. As soon as one guy started touching me, I felt many hands landed on my body. Some groping my tits through my dress. Some caressed my thighs. Some tried to pull my ass wide apart. Even more fingers were fighting to insert into my dripping pussy. It was such an unbelievable feeling having so many hands touching, kneading, and groping every curve of my body. Suddenly, I felt a cock trying to push into my pussy. I froze and looked at my ex. He softly said he saw the guy put on a condom. So, I raised my ass a bit higher to meet the guy’s cock, and I went back to french kissing my ex because I didn’t really dare to look at all the guys around me.
The first guy didn’t last long and I felt his cock throbbing as he came. My ex then whispered in my ear to be ready for more. That’s when I realized that my fantasy is really happening, which got me extremely aroused. For the next 30 to 40 minutes, there were about 15 guys pounding me doggy style one after another while I straddled my ex and kissed him. I dared not to look around, but only at ex’s eyes once in a while. Most guys came in about 2 or 3 minutes, but some came much faster, and others took longer. It definitely felt like my pussy was quickly filled up by another cock as soon as one pulled out. A couple of cocks felt really big. One was quite long and it hurt when going deep. I think I had about 4 orgasms during that span of time.
My ex was checking every guy had a condom on before fucking me. Then, one guy tried to fuck me without a condom and my ex made a gesture to him to stop, but the guy either didn’t see my ex’s gesture or he just didn’t care, he just penetrated me quickly. That’s when my ex had to pull me off him so that guy’s cock would disengage. The interruption spoiled the mood and my ex pulled me up the couch, pulled down my dress and we walked out of the room quickly.
Had we not have that interruption, I probably would have gone on to take another 5 to 10 guys.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We left the sex club and went back to a hotel nearby. As soon as we entered the hotel room, my ex pushed me onto to a chair, pulled up my skirt and fucked me doggy style just like those guys in the sex club earlier. My ex came within 30 seconds. We took a shower, rested, talked about what happened in the sex club, and we fucked 2 more times before we both were exhausted and slept.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fantasy realized.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Rude guys.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent!!!
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